She Strengthens

The Unfiltered Truth About Lifestyle Blogs

A Space to Talk Honestly About Money

When I started this blog, my goal was simple: to create a platform where I could openly discuss financial struggles without feeling like an out-of-touch expert. I wanted to share my frustrations with managing bills, understanding investments, and navigating insurance plans. But as I delved deeper, I realized I wanted to create something more substantial.

Breaking Free from the Glossy Facade

Lifestyle blogs often present an unattainable standard of perfection, showcasing seemingly effortless style and luxury. As someone who’s worked in sponsored content, I’ve seen firsthand how these bloggers operate. They’re not real people; they’re curated brands, funded by unknown sources. Their Instagram feeds are a stream of carefully crafted, Pinterest-inspired moments, devoid of genuine personality.

The Illusion of Perfection

These bloggers present a false narrative, pretending that their lavish lifestyles are within reach. But I know the truth: the endorsement deals, the freebies, and the constant pressure to conform to a certain aesthetic. They’re forced to remove any hint of controversy or personality from their content, leaving behind a hollow shell of what could be a genuine connection with their audience.

The Missing Link: Authenticity

I’m not asking for perfection; I’m asking for honesty. Can these bloggers share something about themselves beyond a hashtag? Can they admit that their lives aren’t as glamorous as they seem? The constant pursuit of free stuff and sponsorships has created a culture of superficiality, where authenticity is sacrificed for the sake of aesthetics.

A Call to Action

I’m not trying to straddle the worlds of substance and style; I know my photography skills will never rival those of the pros. But I do believe it’s essential to call out this trend, to demand more from our influencers. Fashion bloggers can be aspirational without losing their humanity. We need a fashion blogger for the working woman, someone who understands the struggles of everyday life.

Life is Stressful Enough

Let’s stop pretending that anyone’s life can be a constant stream of Instagram-worthy moments. We have jobs, bills, and real-life problems. It’s time for a change, for a new kind of lifestyle blog that values honesty over art direction, and substance over superficiality.