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Embracing the In-Between: Why Domestic Partnerships Make Sense

When I say “my partner” or “my boyfriend,” I’m often met with curiosity. What exactly does that mean? For me, it means Marc, my Domestic Partner of several months now. But what does that entail, exactly?

The Practical Benefits

Last year, I left my job to focus on my passion project, The Financial Diet. With that came the daunting task of navigating health insurance. I had planned for some out-of-pocket medical expenses, including Invisalign, and I knew I needed decent coverage. That’s when Marc’s robust insurance plan came into play. Getting on his plan made sense, but we thought it would require marriage. However, in New York (and many other states), Domestic Partnerships are a viable option.

A Simple yet Significant Step

For a mere $35 and a few hours at the City Clerk’s office, we sealed the deal. To end the Partnership, we’ll simply need to sign some new papers. It’s a low-commitment, high-reward arrangement that’s been a game-changer for us.

Dispelling Misconceptions

Some people shy away from Domestic Partnerships, fearing they’ll somehow delay or dissuade marriage. Others are hesitant due to the perceived level of state-sponsored commitment. Let me put your mind at ease: this process is unobtrusive, simple, and changes nothing about your daily life. It’s merely a logistical convenience that can bring peace of mind.

A Stepping Stone to Happiness

For those who worry that Domestic Partnerships will dampen the desire for a future wedding, I assure you it won’t. Marc and I still look forward to getting married when the time is right. This small formality has only made our daily lives easier, bringing us closer to that point of readiness.

Rethinking Relationships

A wedding and marriage are indeed special, but small legal unions like Domestic Partnerships can be a vital stepping stone. They don’t have to be all or nothing; there are many small steps along the way that can make life easier, allowing you to focus on what truly matters – your happiness.

Exploring Your Options

If you’re considering a Domestic Partnership, I encourage you to look into it. It may just be the solution you’ve been seeking to simplify your life and focus on the things that bring you joy.