Embracing the Power of Commitment
When it comes to making decisions, we often find ourselves torn between taking the leap and playing it safe. But what if I told you that committing to something ahead of time can be the key to unlocking new opportunities and experiences?
The Freedom to Pursue
Recently, I found myself browsing flights to visit a dear friend who lives far away. It’s a familiar dilemma – wanting to nurture friendships despite geographical distance. As I weighed the cost against my checking account, I realized that saying yes to the trip would require me to work harder and smarter in the coming months. But I knew it would be worth it.
The Rule of “Say Yes First”
This experience reminded me of a guiding principle that has shaped my life: committing to something within reason, ahead of time, forces you to make it work. Whether it’s buying tickets for a dream trip, agreeing to a side project, or setting a deadline to start your own business, saying yes first invests in your future self. It gives you the motivation to adjust your life, prioritize tasks, and make things happen.
Avoiding Procrastination and Panic
We’ve all been guilty of putting off decisions until later, only to regret not taking action sooner. By saying yes first, you avoid the pitfalls of procrastination and last-minute panic. You’re more likely to make thoughtful, intentional decisions that align with your goals and values.
Faith in Yourself
This approach requires trust in your ability to get things done. It’s about believing that you can overcome obstacles and make the necessary adjustments to achieve your objectives. And when you do, you’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish.
Lessons Learned
Looking back, I realize that some of the best decisions I’ve made – pursuing a writing career, living abroad, and traveling frequently – were possible because I said yes first. It wasn’t always easy, but it forced me to be resourceful and creative. And in the end, it was worth it.
Taking the Leap
So, the next time you’re faced with a decision that could change your life, consider saying yes first. Trust that you’ll find a way to make it work, and that the temporary discomfort will be worth the long-term benefits. Remember, it’s often the scary decisions that lead to the most growth and fulfillment.
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