She Strengthens

Breaking Free from Generational Chains

As I reflect on my life, I’m reminded of the significant strides women have made in recent decades. My oldest daughter, soon to be a mother herself, embodies the epitome of independence and freedom. With a supportive partner and a company that offers six months of paid leave, she’s poised to navigate motherhood with ease. Her peers, too, have established a sense of financial security and egalitarian relationships, making parenthood a natural progression in their careers.

A World of Contrasts

I, on the other hand, grew up in a different era. Born into a time when women’s rights were limited, I witnessed firsthand the struggles my mother faced. She married young, had children, and was trapped in a cycle of abuse and financial dependence. Her story is a stark reminder of the sacrifices women made in the past.

From Submissiveness to Empowerment

My own journey was marked by a desire to break free from the norms of my upbringing. I graduated high school after Roe vs. Wade, and although I still subscribed to traditional values, I began to forge my own path. I pursued higher education, worked, and eventually had children. However, I soon realized that my decisions were still influenced by societal expectations.

Raising Daughters to Be Independent

As a mother, I was determined to raise my daughters differently. I encouraged them to pursue higher education, establish their own savings accounts, and invest in their futures. I instilled in them the importance of independence, self-reliance, and making choices that align with their desires. I wanted them to know that they didn’t have to settle for anything less than freedom and equality.

A New Era of Possibilities

Today, I’m proud to see my daughters thriving in their careers and relationships. They’re unapologetically themselves, making choices that bring them joy and fulfillment. It’s a testament to the progress we’ve made as a society, and I’m grateful to have played a part in shaping their lives.

A Message to the Next Generation

To the young women reading this, I urge you to take control of your lives. Don’t settle for anything less than what you desire. Remember, you have the power to create the life you want, free from the constraints of societal expectations. Be grateful for the freedoms you have, and never forget the struggles of those who came before you. Shine bright, and light the way for others to follow.