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The Luxury of Relaxation: Why I’m Unapologetic About My Vacation Spending

As I scrolled through a popular personal finance article, I couldn’t help but feel a pang of guilt. The author was discussing the staggering amount of money people waste on vacations each year, and how cutting back on travel expenses could lead to bigger savings and a more secure financial future. I understood the logic, but what struck a nerve was the tone of judgment and superiority that permeated the article.

It seemed that people like me, who spend thousands of dollars on vacations, were being held up as cautionary tales. We were the ones making foolish financial choices, sacrificing our future wealth and security for fleeting pleasures. But I couldn’t help but feel that this perspective was unfair and narrow-minded.

My own summer vacation plans were already set in motion, and I was excited to embark on a two-week adventure to Spain, Italy, and Corsica with two friends. The total cost? A whopping $3,800. I knew it was a lot of money, but I had worked hard to save up for it, and I was willing to splurge on comfort and convenience.

I’m not a die-hard traveler who revels in roughing it or backpacking across continents. I prefer my vacations to be relaxing and rejuvenating, with nice accommodations, good food, and plenty of downtime. I’m willing to pay extra for nonstop flights, Economy Plus seats, and better airlines that offer perks like free drinks.

My love for vacations isn’t about accumulating Instagram-worthy moments or ticking off bucket-list destinations. It’s about taking a break from my stressful job and recharging my batteries. I need that time to unplug and unwind, and if I don’t get it, I risk burning out.

Of course, I’m aware that I could be smarter with my money. I could cut back on expenses and invest more in my 401k. But for me, the memories and experiences I gain from my vacations are priceless. They’re worth every penny, and I wouldn’t trade them for a bigger nest egg.

I’m not alone in my approach to travel. There are others who, like me, prioritize relaxation and comfort over thrifty travel hacks. We’re not trying to be frugal or adventurous; we just want to enjoy ourselves and recharge.

So, no, I don’t feel guilty about my vacation spending. I’m not ashamed to admit that I love to indulge in luxury and pamper myself. And I won’t let anyone make me feel superficial or foolish for choosing to spend my money on experiences that bring me joy.

In the end, it’s all about perspective. What’s important to me is happiness, not perfection. And if my vacations bring me happiness, then they’re worth every penny.