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The Unconventional Honeymoon: Why Waiting Was the Best Decision We Ever Made

As I reflect on our wedding day, I’m reminded of the fairytale-like scenario I had envisioned: climbing into a vintage Cadillac, surrounded by balloons and sparklers, and driving off into the sunset with my new husband. But reality had other plans. Instead, we drove back to our Boston apartment, indulged in leftover wedding food, and returned to work the next day.

The Logistics of Love

Our decision to postpone our honeymoon to Iceland by six months was largely driven by practicality. As educators, we knew that taking time off during the school year would be challenging, especially during the busy September period. However, our academic calendars included a two-week March break, making it the perfect opportunity to plan our trip.

Savoring the Moment

In hindsight, waiting was a blessing in disguise. The wedding day was a whirlwind of emotions, and having time to unwind and process our feelings allowed us to appreciate the experience more fully. We spent our days reminiscing about the wedding, looking through photos, and enjoying each other’s company without the pressure of an impending trip.

The Post-Wedding Blues

After the wedding, it’s normal to feel a sense of loss or emptiness. The excitement and anticipation of the big day are replaced with the mundane routine of daily life. But having our honeymoon to look forward to kept the celebration alive, giving us something to focus on and plan for.

A Financial Reprieve

Let’s face it: weddings are expensive. And the costs don’t stop after the big day. By waiting, we avoided the financial strain of planning a trip immediately after the wedding. This allowed us to recharge our wallets and approach our honeymoon with a clearer mind.

The Best of Both Worlds

In the end, waiting to take our honeymoon was the best decision we made. It gave us time to relax, recharge, and refocus on our relationship. And when we finally embarked on our trip, it felt like a continuation of our wedding celebration. If you’re considering postponing your honeymoon, I highly recommend it. You’ll thank yourself later.