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Breaking Free from Impulse Buys: My Shopping Ban Experience

The Rules I Set for Myself

During my three-month shopping ban, I vowed to abstain from buying clothes, shoes, jewelry, makeup, hair products, and any nonessential items. This experience taught me a lot about myself and my spending habits. While I mostly stuck to my rules, I did make a few exceptions.

The Exceptions I Made

Earphones: A Commuter’s Necessity

When my trusty earphones broke, I had to make an exception to maintain my sanity during my hour-long daily commute. After searching several stores, I found my preferred brand behind a dusty counter and paid $10 for a new pair. However, the sound quality wasn’t up to par, so I later bought a newer set for $8. Total cost: $18.

Events: A Treat for Myself

I couldn’t resist buying tickets to see Serena Williams play an exhibition match and a performance of The King and I at Lincoln Center. These events brought me joy and were worth the $87 I spent.

Skincare: Sampling Before Committing

I wanted to revamp my skincare routine, so I tried samples of Paula’s Choice products, which cost $4.08. Although I didn’t find the right fit, the samples came with a valuable guide that helped me create a new regimen using products I already owned.

Serum: A Frugal Find

I fell in love with Estee Lauder’s Advance Night Repair serum after trying a sample. Instead of buying a full-sized bottle for $73, I found a set of samplers on Poshmark and Ebay that will last me six months for $30, saving me $43.

Essential Oil Diffuser: A New Source of Relaxation

After experiencing an essential oil diffuser at a meeting, I knew I had to have one in my bedroom. I bought a cheaper brand diffuser for $20 and two brand-name essential oils for $10. This new habit has brought me peace and calm.

Makeup: A Little Indulgence

While buying the diffuser, I caved and purchased new setting powder and primer for $16.

A Good Book: Worth the Investment

During my ban, I borrowed books from the New York Public Library, but I eventually wanted to re-read Tim Ferriss’s 4-Hour Work Week, so I bought a used copy online for $4. I also made a small donation to the NYPL to support their services.

Lessons Learned

My shopping ban experience taught me the importance of being intentional with my purchases and finding ways to save money without sacrificing quality. By making a few exceptions, I learned that sometimes it’s necessary to splurge on things that bring me joy and improve my daily life.