She Strengthens

The Unspoken Reality of Sex Work

A Privileged Perspective

As a successful entrepreneur in the heart of Manhattan, you may have stumbled upon my services. I operate in a gray area, where legality, morality, and acceptability blur. My profession is often shrouded in secrecy, but I’m here to lift the veil.

The Upscale Spa Experience

I work as an erotic massage therapist in an upscale spa, where cleanliness, conduct, and clientele are paramount. Our establishment is equipped with cameras for safety, and we charge premium rates for our services. We’re protected, well-compensated, and discerning about our clients. If someone doesn’t meet our standards, we can have them escorted out without hesitation.

The Dynamics of Sex Work

The sex industry recreates the social hierarchies present in capitalist societies. As a white, college-educated woman, I’m treated with more dignity and respect. I can earn nearly $1,000 on a good day, a rare feat for many women in my line of work. This disparity highlights the need to distinguish between privileged sex workers like myself and those who are exploited and abused.

My Double Life

I lead a double life, working a respectable office job four days a week and living a normal life. My secret is safe, and I’ve convinced myself that it’s worth the short-term gains. Paying off my $58,000 student loans quickly is my primary goal. The financial freedom will enable me to pursue my passions, travel, and live life on my own terms.

The Reality of Erotic Massage Therapy

My job involves massaging clients naked, but I don’t engage in sexual activities. Some colleagues may offer extra services, but I’ve set boundaries to maintain my comfort level. To those who judge, I say that it’s my choice, just as it’s their choice to make financial sacrifices to chip away at debt over decades.

A Calculated Risk

I have a plan to earn enough to pay off my debt, build a nest egg, and secure an emergency fund. This means I’ll continue working as an erotic massage therapist for at least two more years. It’s not for everyone, but I’m willing to take risks to achieve my dreams.

Privilege and Exploitation

Sex work has taught me to acknowledge my privilege, even in my disadvantaged position. I see women around me who work just as hard but face exploitation and oppression due to their circumstances. I don’t resent my situation, knowing that I have a choice and can use my body to my advantage.

A Pragmatic Decision

Would I recommend my job to someone in a similar situation? Maybe. It depends on the individual’s ability to swallow their pride and weigh the risks against the rewards. For me, the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks. I’m not someone to be pitied; I’m a realist who knows the trade-offs I’m making.