She Strengthens

Embracing a Life of Freedom and Adventure

As I reflect on my vision for the perfect day, I’m struck by how much my priorities have shifted over the past two years. While some aspects remain the same – I still dream of being an author, freelance writer, and public speaker – my definition of “home” has undergone a significant transformation.

Rethinking Homeownership

Initially, I was set on buying a two-bedroom condo or a house, depending on my relationship status. However, the more I think about it, the more I realize that homeownership is not only financially out of reach but also not aligned with my current values. I’ve come to appreciate the freedom and flexibility that comes with not being tied to a specific location.

The Allure of Long-Term Travel

What I truly crave is the ability to travel extensively and explore new places at my own pace. I’ve always been fascinated by the idea of taking a gap year, but circumstances never allowed me to pursue it. Now, with my debt paid off and the ability to work remotely, I’m finally in a position to make my travel dreams a reality.

A Cross-Country Adventure

One trip that has been on my bucket list for years is driving across Canada. I envision taking my time, stopping whenever I please, and immersing myself in the natural beauty of our country. I want to hike, camp, and visit friends along the way, savoring every moment without feeling rushed.

Preparing for the Journey

Before embarking on this adventure, I need to prepare myself and my trusty vehicle, Bandit. I’ll require a tent, sleeping bag, and camping gear, as well as safety precautions and a car charger for my phone. I’m aiming to spend less than $1,500 on these essentials.

Breaking Free from Constraints

My shopping ban has been instrumental in helping me save for this trip. While I’ll need to break the ban to purchase the necessary gear, I’m grateful for the discipline it has instilled in me. I’m excited to use my savings to fund this adventure and prove to myself that I can make intentional decisions about how I spend my money.

Embracing the Unknown

As I embark on this journey, I’m aware that it won’t be easy. Living on the road, surrounded by wilderness and unpredictable weather, will be a far cry from my comfortable apartment. But I know that I’ll regret it if I don’t take the leap. I’m ready to trade in the comforts of familiarity for the thrill of exploration and discovery.

A New Chapter Unfolds

In the past, I made decisions based on what I thought I should do. Now, I’m embracing a life that aligns with my true desires. I want to travel long-term, explore new places, and experience the world at my own pace. It’s taken me a while to get here, but I’m finally ready to take the first step towards a life of freedom and adventure.