She Strengthens

Breaking Free from the Grind

I’d reached my breaking point after four years in the publishing industry. The long hours, low pay, and lack of respect from my boss had taken a toll on my mental and emotional well-being. I was exhausted, feeling like a slave to my phone and my job, with no break in sight. But I’d been preparing for this moment, saving diligently over the years, and I finally had enough – $8,500 to be exact.

The Urge to Escape

I’d always dreamed of traveling, but never had the time or courage to take the leap. Now, with my savings in hand, I felt ready to break free from the monotony of my daily routine. My boyfriend was supportive, and I didn’t have any other obligations holding me back. It was the perfect opportunity to take a six-month hiatus from life.

Planning the Great Escape

I timed my two weeks’ notice with the end of my lease, ensuring a smooth transition. My boyfriend and I planned to travel together for the first six weeks, exploring Japan, Vietnam, and Thailand. Then, he’d return home, and I’d continue on my own, spending four months traveling solo. I was thrilled to finally be doing something I believed in.

The Spontaneous Route

I’d planned the beginning of my trip, but intentionally left the rest open to spontaneity. I wanted to experience the thrill of uncertainty, to live in the moment. My boyfriend and I explored Southeast Asia, and then I continued on to Australia. But, as the months went by, my funds began to dwindle at an alarming rate.

Reality Check

By the fourth month, I’d flat-out run out of money. My budgeting had been atrocious, and I was forced to confront the consequences of my actions. I had two options: get a job in Australia and stay put, or admit defeat and head home. I chose the latter, borrowing money from my boyfriend to book a ticket back home.

Lessons Learned

Returning home two months early, I was faced with the harsh reality of my financial situation. I’d blown through my savings, and now I had to start from scratch. But, despite the setbacks, I wouldn’t trade my experiences for anything. I’ve learned that the life of a digital nomad isn’t always glamorous, and that financial responsibility is crucial. I’m grateful for my safety net, but I know not everyone is as fortunate.

A New Chapter

As I settle back into my life, I’m taking steps to rebuild my finances and find a new sense of purpose. I’ve landed a serving job to get back on my feet, and I’m looking forward to moving into a new apartment soon. This experience has taught me the importance of balance and responsibility, and I’m determined to apply these lessons to my future endeavors.