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Wedding Wisdom: 7 Brides Share Their Most Valuable Insights

Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, with endless details to consider and opinions to weigh. But what do brides wish they had done differently on their big day? We asked seven brides to share their most valuable insights, from prioritizing what matters most to avoiding common pitfalls.

Lessons Learned: Flowers, Photography, and More

Jen, who opted for a minimalist approach to flowers, advises couples to rethink their floral budget. “Flower prices are outrageous,” she says. “I made my own centerpieces, and it was a huge cost-saver.” She also recommends investing in a video package, citing the joy of reliving her special day through footage.

Kim, who had a tropical-themed wedding, emphasizes the importance of staying focused on what truly matters. “We spent money on what was most important to us and were thrifty in other areas,” she explains. “It was all about prioritizing our values and having fun.”

The Importance of Personalization

Gen, who had a non-religious courthouse wedding, stresses the value of making the ceremony personal. “Having someone perform our ceremony who was special to us made the day even more amazing,” she says. “Be selfish and think about what you and your spouse want – it’s okay to prioritize your own happiness.”

Alison, who opted for a budget-friendly dress, advises couples to rethink their fashion choices. “Go inexpensive on the dress,” she says. “Your guests won’t know the difference, and you can allocate that budget to something more meaningful.”

Regrets and Revelations

Jen regrets not trying on her dress before the wedding day, which resulted in a costly alteration mistake. Kim wishes she had filmed her wedding, citing the value of capturing memories. Kristin, who still hasn’t created a wedding album, advises couples to prioritize this task.

Alison, who suffered through a sweltering 100-degree wedding day, wishes she had considered the weather when choosing her attire. Gen, who had communication issues with her photographer, stresses the importance of a clear contract.

Final Thoughts and Takeaways

Becky, who opted for a non-traditional appetizer and dessert reception, recommends this approach for a more relaxed, fun atmosphere. Ali L, who overspent on flowers, advises couples to prioritize their true desires and allocate their budget accordingly.

What are your own Do Again and Do-Over wedding-day decisions? Share your stories and learn from these seven brides’ valuable insights.