She Strengthens

Breaking Free from Self-Imposed Expectations

Two years ago, I made the bold decision to leave my job, marking a significant turning point in my life. It wasn’t an easy choice, but it taught me a valuable lesson: knowing when to let go of something that’s no longer serving you is crucial for growth.

The Fear of Failure

Society often views failure as a negative experience, but I believe it’s an opportunity for transformation. It’s the catalyst that drives us to make changes and strive for success. Despite this understanding, I’ve always struggled with giving up on things, fearing that it would mean I’m not driven or ambitious enough.

A Moment of Clarity

During a visit to my hometown, Pittsburgh, I had an epiphany. I realized that I was stuck in a job that wasn’t fulfilling, and it was affecting every aspect of my life. I created a plan to quit my job, move back to Pittsburgh, and pursue freelance work. But when I returned to San Francisco, I began to doubt myself, fearing the loss of financial stability and comfort.

The Power of Intuition

I knew I had to trust my instincts and take a leap of faith. I realized that staying in a job that made me miserable was unfair to myself, my loved ones, and my employer. I wanted to work on my own terms, pursuing projects that brought me joy and flexibility.

Embracing Vulnerability

It’s okay to acknowledge our weaknesses and failures. It’s okay to not have all the answers. By embracing vulnerability, we become more relatable and human. We can learn from our mistakes and use them as opportunities for growth.

Taking the Leap

If you’re feeling stuck or unhappy, it’s time to take action. Quit the job that’s holding you back, buy that plane ticket, or submit that essay. The worst that can happen is you’ll learn from the experience, and the best that can happen is that everything will work out perfectly.

New Beginnings

Today, I’m a freelance social media strategist, pursuing a career that aligns with my passions and values. I’ve learned that it’s never too late to make a change and that trusting my intuition is the key to happiness and success.