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The Paradox of Prosperity: Why Having More Money Can Make Us Less Happy

As I reflect on my financial journey, I’m struck by the irony of my own entitlement. I’ve always been drawn to the finer things in life – French skincare, luxurious lingerie, and exotic holidays. And yet, as my income has increased, so has my discontent. I’ve come to realize that having more money doesn’t necessarily mean I’m happier or more fulfilled.

The Illusion of Insufficiency

When I was a broke student, I didn’t complain about my income as much as I do now. In fact, I was more content with less. I remember going days without spending a single penny, relying on my own resourcefulness to get by. I’d walk everywhere, read books, and enjoy simple pleasures like a cup of tea. Those moneyless days were a form of self-imposed fasting, a chance to rediscover what truly mattered.

Simple Pleasures, Luxurious Living

As a student, I made the most of my spare time. I’d sit in cafes for hours, sipping coffee and watching the world go by. I’d browse charity shops, attend free exhibitions, and cherish handwritten letters from friends. My mind was hungry for knowledge, and I devoured books, films, and music from all corners of the globe.

The Freedom of Frugality

Back then, I didn’t worry about impressing others. I owned just three pairs of shoes and didn’t feel the need to keep up with the latest trends. I was indifferent to people’s opinions, focusing instead on living life on my own terms. As my income increased, however, I began to feel the pressure of societal expectations. I started to worry about what others thought of me, and my spending habits reflected that anxiety.

The Joy of Giving

When I was broke, I was generous with my time and resources. I’d cook meals for friends, lend a hand with moving, and donate to worthy causes. Now, I feel like I don’t have the time or money to make a difference. It’s a sad realization, one that highlights the importance of cultivating empathy and kindness, regardless of our financial situation.

Breaking Free from Comparison

As I look back, I realize that I didn’t torture myself with comparisons to others when I was younger. I didn’t envy those who had more, nor did I feel the need to keep up with their lifestyle. Now, I catch myself getting caught up in the trap of comparison, feeling inadequate when others seem more successful or wealthy. It’s a vicious cycle, one that perpetuates the myth that happiness can be bought.

Rediscovering Integrity

As I navigate the complexities of adulthood, I’m forced to confront my own values and priorities. I’ve come to realize that having more money doesn’t guarantee happiness; in fact, it can often lead to dissatisfaction and discontent. I’m trying to distance myself from the entitled mentality that comes with prosperity, embracing instead the simplicity and integrity of my younger self. It’s a journey, not a destination, but one that I’m committed to taking.