She Strengthens

Mindful Spending: Avoiding Trendy Traps

As a self-proclaimed advocate for intentional spending, I’ve learned to identify areas where I tend to splurge unnecessarily. It’s essential to recognize where our money goes and ensure it aligns with our values and priorities.

Breakfast Blues: The Brunch Conundrum

I adore breakfast, and a good Bloody Mary is hard to resist. However, I’ve come to realize that brunch often leaves me feeling guilty about the $14 spent on eggs I could’ve easily made at home. Unless I’m trying a unique foodie spot or visiting friends in a new city, I’m better off skipping the trendy brunch scene.

The Music Myth: Rethinking Subscriptions

With so many music streaming options available, it’s tempting to sign up for a monthly subscription. But let’s be honest – I’m not a music aficionado. I enjoy top 40 pop and in-the-club rap, but I don’t need to listen to it all the time. I’d rather stick to YouTube repeats or purchase individual tracks. The $9.99 monthly fee just doesn’t justify the cost for me.

Concerts and Festivals: Not My Scene

Given my lukewarm feelings towards music subscriptions, it’s no surprise I’m not enthusiastic about concerts and festivals. While I’ve enjoyed the experience as a plus one, I wouldn’t prioritize spending money or dedicating significant time to these events.

The Beauty Box Bust

I’ve always been fascinated by makeup, but I’m not an experimentalist. I know what works for me, and I stick to it. Subscription boxes may bring a thrill, but they often result in unused products collecting dust on my vanity. If I’m going to treat myself, it’ll be on something I’ve wanted for a while and know I’ll use.

Fitness Fads: Finding a Sustainable Routine

I’m all for trying new workout styles, but I prioritize finding a routine I can easily replicate on my own. Fitness classes may be fun, but they’re not a sustainable option for me. I’d rather focus on building a consistent exercise habit that I can maintain anywhere, anytime.

Paint Night: A One-Time Delight

I once treated my mom to a paint night, and we had a blast. However, it wasn’t an experience I’d pay for again. While creating art with friends is enjoyable, I’d rather allocate that $40 elsewhere.

The Perfect Bar: A Mythical Dream

I used to strive for a well-stocked bar, imagining I’d host elaborate gatherings. In reality, my social events are casual, and I’m happy to let friends bring their own drinks. Having bottles of alcohol at home makes me feel guilty about not using them, so I’ll stick to buying small quantities as needed.

Uber, Uber Everywhere: A Cautionary Tale

Uber’s clever marketing can make their services seem like a necessary expense. But as someone who walks almost everywhere, I should prioritize my FitBit goals over convenience. I’ll reserve Uber for late nights or when I haven’t planned ahead – and only when it’s truly necessary.