She Strengthens

Breaking Free from Financial Shame

For many of us, money is a taboo topic, shrouded in secrecy and shame. We’ve all been there – stuck in a cycle of financial insecurity, feeling like we’re not good enough, and terrified to open up about our struggles. But what if we could flip the script? What if we could talk openly about our past mistakes, current struggles, and financial insecurities without fear of judgment?

The Liberating Power of Honesty

Personally, I’ve found that confronting my financial demons head-on has been incredibly liberating. It’s allowed me to take control of my finances, rather than letting them control me. I’ve come to realize that my worth as a person isn’t tied to my bank account balance. Saying “no” to social engagements that break the bank isn’t a character flaw – it’s a sign of financial responsibility.

The Weight of Secrecy

Unfortunately, many people still feel the need to hide their financial struggles. They’re afraid to admit their insecurities, debt, or budget constraints, fearing ridicule or judgment from others. This secrecy can lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation, causing people to agree to social engagements they can’t afford, just to avoid saying no. It’s a vicious cycle that can lead to debt and financial distress.

A New Approach to Money Conversations

My goal is to change the way we talk about money. I believe that financial conversations should be open, honest, and unpretentious. We all have our own unique set of privileges and obstacles, secrets, and advantages. By acknowledging these differences, we can break down the barriers that keep us from having real conversations about money.

Laughter and Vulnerability

To help illustrate this point, I recently created a video where I answered some embarrassing money questions. It’s a lighthearted way to show that we’re all figuring things out, and that no one has all the answers. By sharing our vulnerabilities and imperfections, we can create a sense of community and understanding around money.

No One is Perfect

The truth is, we’re all works in progress when it comes to our finances. We’ve all made mistakes, and we’ll continue to make them. But by being open and honest about our struggles, we can learn from each other and grow together. So, let’s start talking about money in a way that’s real, relatable, and unapologetic. Who’s with me?