She Strengthens

Family, Finances, and the Holiday Season

As I spent quality time with my loved ones over the holidays, I couldn’t help but reflect on the role of money in our lives. With a large extended family and a job that allows me to work remotely, I felt grateful to have the opportunity to reconnect with those I don’t see often enough.

A Privileged Perspective

Having a supportive family is a privilege in itself, but I’m also aware that not everyone is as fortunate. My family’s diverse careers – from nurses and doctors to business owners and engineers – served as a reminder that everyone’s financial journey is unique.

Money Worries and What-Ifs

Spending time with family can stir up insecurities about our financial choices. I found myself wondering if I should have chosen a different college major or career field, especially when comparing myself to cousins who seem more financially stable. I also worried about the cost of hosting holidays and the burden it places on the host family.

The Luxury of Choice

However, I realized that my career path, though unconventional, brings me joy and flexibility. I have healthcare and retirement options, and I’m grateful for the freedom to pursue my passions. It’s essential to focus on what truly matters to me, rather than comparing myself to others.

The Value of Savings

Watching my family prepare my grandmother for life after losing my grandfather made me appreciate the importance of saving for the future. I’m glad I started contributing to a retirement account, and I know it will bring me peace of mind in the long run.

Counting My Blessings

Growing up, I was fortunate to have parents who could take time off for holidays and travel with my brother and me. Now, I’m grateful for a supportive family that approaches my creative career with curiosity and understanding. The holiday season may be tiring, but it’s a time to cherish relationships and reflect on our blessings.

Lessons Learned

This holiday season taught me to appreciate my privileges, focus on what truly matters, and prioritize saving for the future. It’s a reminder that everyone’s financial journey is unique, and it’s essential to stay true to ourselves and our goals.