She Strengthens

The Unattainable Standard of Success

For weeks, I’ve been struggling to get a good night’s sleep, plagued by anxiety and insomnia. It’s a familiar feeling, one that I’ve tried to tackle with medication and doctor’s visits, but to no avail. The lack of restful sleep has taken a toll on my daily life, leaving me feeling half-awake and half-lived.

The Weight of Control

I’ve come to realize that my struggles with sleep are closely tied to my need for control. I have a tendency to take on too much, refusing to delegate tasks or relinquish control, even when it’s necessary. This need for control stems from my upbringing and societal expectations, which often measure a person’s worth by their ability to handle multiple tasks and responsibilities.

The Pressure to Be a #Girlboss

As a woman, I’m expected to be a #girlboss, effortlessly juggling multiple tasks and responsibilities while maintaining a perfect image. The pressure to conform to this ideal is overwhelming, and it’s taking a toll on my mental health. I’m not alone in this struggle; many women feel the need to present a curated image of perfection, hiding their imperfections and struggles behind a mask of confidence and control.

The Illusion of Having It All

The idea of “having it all” is a myth, a sick joke that perpetuates unrealistic expectations and drives women to the brink of insanity. The truth is, no one can do it all, and those who appear to be succeeding are often hiding their struggles behind a veil of perfection. They may have the means to outsource their tasks, but they’re still human, struggling with the same fears and doubts as the rest of us.

Breaking Free from the Cycle

It’s time to break free from the cycle of control and perfection. We need to redefine what it means to be successful, focusing on our ability to be decent, healthy human beings rather than perfect, high-achieving machines. It’s okay to show vulnerability, to admit when we’re struggling, and to ask for help. By doing so, we can create a more realistic and attainable standard of success, one that prioritizes well-being over achievement.

Embracing Imperfection

I’m learning to let go of my need for control, to delegate tasks, and to prioritize my well-being. It’s not easy, but it’s necessary. I’m embracing my imperfections, acknowledging that I’m not alone in my struggles, and seeking help when I need it. By doing so, I’m taking the first step towards a healthier, happier me.