She Strengthens

Embracing the Joy of Work

In today’s self-care obsessed culture, it’s often deemed necessary to disconnect from our jobs and prioritize relaxation. But what if our work is, in fact, a vital part of our self-care routine?

Finding Happiness in the Grind

For me, work is a source of solace and happiness, no matter how much time it consumes. While it may be challenging to fit in other activities, I don’t feel like I’m missing out. My job brings me joy, and I don’t feel the need to justify that.

A Shift in Perspective

I haven’t always been this way. Just a few months ago, my day job was something I did out of necessity, not passion. I didn’t understand why people would voluntarily stay late or take their work home. Now, as a full-time writer, I’ve given up evenings, weekends, and holidays for the thrill of seeing my byline in print. This sense of validation and fulfillment is unmatched.

The Unique High of Success

There’s a distinct buzz that comes from feeling successful in my job. It’s unlike any other feeling, and it’s what drives me to keep pushing forward. This sense of accomplishment is not something that can be replicated in other areas of life.

Breaking Down the Stigma

Unfortunately, there’s a stigma attached to being obsessed with one’s job. People who are passionate about their work are often viewed as “workaholics” who struggle with commitment and relationships. But this couldn’t be further from the truth. As someone who is deeply invested in her job, I can attest that it’s possible to be a trustworthy friend, caring partner, and dedicated family member while still being a hard worker.

Rethinking Expectations

As a society, we’ve made progress in our expectations for women and their careers, but we still have a long way to go. We’re often forced to choose between our jobs and our relationships, as if they’re mutually exclusive. Why can’t we be both dedicated workers and good family members? It’s time to reject the idea that being consumed by work is inherently negative.

Embracing Multiple Identities

Women can be more than one thing – we can be hard workers, good partners, and dedicated family members. If we’re truly going to be a progressive society, we need to recognize that a career is not something to be compared to other aspects of our lives. When we love what we do, we should be able to pursue it wholeheartedly, without fear of judgment or criticism.

Diving In with Heart and Mind

If you’re passionate about your job, don’t let society make you feel bad for chasing that high of success. It’s one of the greatest feelings in the world, and it’s worth embracing. So, dive in with your whole heart and mind, and never apologize for loving what you do.