She Strengthens

Breaking Free from Impulsive Purchases

The Struggle is Real

I’ve come to realize that I’ve been guilty of aspirational spending, buying things that don’t align with my reality. To kick this habit, I’ve taken a closer look at my purchases from last year, and let’s just say it wasn’t a pretty sight.

Fashion Faux Pas

Take, for instance, the Columbia fleece vest I bought because I wanted to be an adventurous, outdoorsy person. But let’s be real, I hate the cold and would rather stay indoors. The vest is comfy, but it makes me look like a soccer mom, and the bright blue color is just not me. It’s been relegated to dog-walking duties, but it’s not getting the wear I intended.

Beauty Blunders

Then there was the foundation fiasco. I went on a mission to find the perfect shade, but ended up buying a bunch of formulas that didn’t match my skin tone. While I did find one that works, the others are collecting dust, and I’m out $40. Moral of the story: test before you buy, and don’t get caught up in the excitement of finding “the one.”

Literary Letdowns

I also fell prey to buying a stack of poetry books, thinking I’d become a poetry enthusiast. But let’s face it, I’m not that person. Libraries exist for a reason, and I should’ve taken advantage of them instead of splurging on books that would likely never be read.

Planning Pitfalls

And then there were the two identical planners I bought, thinking I’d use one for school and one for work. Big mistake. I ended up mixing them up and missing deadlines. If you’re going to use multiple planners, make sure they’re distinct enough to avoid confusion.

Brunch Binges

Let’s not forget the numerous brunches I indulged in, each one leaving me with a lighter wallet and a belly full of breakfast drinks. While it’s a simple pleasure, it’s not exactly a financially savvy choice.

Magazine Mishaps

I also got caught up in a magazine subscription that I didn’t end up using much. While it was only $6 initially, it auto-renewed without my knowledge, costing me $20. Now I have a stack of unread magazines collecting dust. No more aspirational magazine purchases for me!

Candle Chaos

Finally, there was the stockpile of inexpensive candles I bought, thinking it was a cute idea. But with no storage space, they’re now scattered all over my home, causing me anxiety about which one to burn next. Lesson learned: only buy what you have space for.

Breaking the Cycle

It’s time to break free from these impulsive purchases and focus on what truly adds value to my life. By acknowledging my mistakes, I can move forward with a clearer understanding of what I need and what I can live without.