She Strengthens

Embracing Priorities: Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations

As I settle into the new year, I’m reminded of the importance of setting realistic goals and prioritizing my well-being. It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, but I’ve come to realize that trying to do it all can lead to burnout and disappointment.

Rethinking My Approach

In the past, I prided myself on being a multitasker, juggling multiple projects and jobs at once. However, I’ve since learned that focusing on less can actually lead to more impactful results. It’s not about being an expert in everything, but rather about being intentional with my time and energy.

Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations

I’ve had to confront the harsh reality that I’m not a superhero. I’m human, and it’s okay to acknowledge my limitations. I’ve been guilty of beating myself up over not being able to give everything the time it deserves, but I’ve come to realize that sacrificing my mental health and personal relationships is not worth it.

Prioritizing My Well-being

Instead of trying to be the queen of everything, I’m focusing on being a person above all else. This means making tough choices and letting go of projects that no longer align with my priorities. Here are a few things I’ve had to neglect in order to make that happen:

The Novelist’s Dilemma

I’ve been working on my first novel for years, but I’ve come to realize that I don’t have the mental capacity to give it the attention it deserves. I’d rather not half-ass it, so I’ve put it on the backburner for now.

The Blogging Hiatus

I started a blog last fall, but I quickly realized that I couldn’t keep up with the demand for quality content. Rather than publishing fluff, I’ve decided to let it sit dormant for now.

Music on the Backburner

Music has been a passion of mine for years, but as I got older, it took a backseat to other priorities. I still have the equipment and resources to create music, but for now, it’s not a priority.

The Content Conundrum

I love YouTube and Instagram, but I’ve come to realize that creating content that resonates with people requires a lot of time and effort. As someone with a regular 9-to-5 job, I don’t have the luxury of creating clickbait content.

The Event Planner’s Dilemma

As an event planner by day, I’ve had to put my dreams of booking shows on hold. It’s not feasible for me to work shows and maintain a healthy work-life balance.

Learning to Say No

It’s not easy to let go of projects and passions, but I’ve come to realize that saying no to certain things means saying yes to myself. By prioritizing my well-being and focusing on what truly matters, I’m able to live a more intentional and fulfilling life.