She Strengthens

Embracing the Value of Privilege

As I accompany a young refugee girl to her first day of school, I’m struck by the contrast between our lives. She wears flip-flops in January, while I have multiple pairs of boots to choose from. This encounter highlights the importance of recognizing and leveraging our privileges to make a positive impact.

From Corporate to Non-Profit: A Shift in Perspective

My transition from the corporate world to a non-profit organization has been a transformative experience. Gone are the days of company-sponsored lunches and catered holiday parties. Instead, I’ve had to adjust to a lower income and take on a second job to make ends meet. Despite the challenges, this journey has taught me valuable lessons about life, privilege, and the importance of generosity.

Lesson 1: Recognizing Privilege

With a monthly income below the poverty line, it’s easy to feel like I’m struggling financially. However, I have a comfortable apartment, a car, and access to healthcare – privileges many people can only dream of. It’s essential to acknowledge and appreciate these blessings, rather than focusing solely on what’s lacking. By recognizing my privilege, I’m reminded of the importance of using my resources to make a positive difference.

The Danger of Shame Spirals

Feeling guilty about our privileges can lead to shame spirals, which are counterproductive and debilitating. Rather than getting bogged down in self-criticism, we should use our awareness of privilege as a catalyst for action. By acknowledging our advantages, we can take conscious steps to be more generous and supportive of those in need.

Lesson 2: The Power of Intentional Giving

As someone who works with a non-profit organization, I’ve seen firsthand the impact of government funding cuts on vital services. It’s clear that private citizens have a crucial role to play in supporting causes they care about. I’ve struggled with hoarding my money, especially since my income decreased. However, I’ve come to realize that even small donations can make a significant difference. By incorporating giving into my monthly budget, I’m taking a crucial step towards creating positive change.

A Call to Action

As I look to the future, I’m unsure of what’s next, but I know that these two lessons will stay with me. I hope to become a more generous and thoughtful person, using my privileges to make a meaningful impact. It’s time for us to recognize the value of our advantages and use them to create a better world for everyone.