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The Flexibility Paradox: Why Being Available Doesn’t Mean You’re Not Working

As someone who works from home, I’ve noticed that people often misunderstand my daily routine. I have the flexibility to schedule my tasks and projects, which means I can attend events or take breaks whenever I want. This freedom can lead others to question my productivity, assuming that I’m not working as much as I should be.

The Productivity Myth

However, research has shown that working from home can actually increase productivity. Maintaining a healthy work-life balance is crucial for job satisfaction and overall well-being. So, why do people assume that those who aren’t workaholics are lazy?

The Importance of “Me-Time”

As someone who schedules their own time, I make it a priority to budget in relaxation time to avoid burnout. Working non-traditional hours can lead to never being “off the clock,” which is unhealthy. I’ve experienced stress firsthand, and it’s taken a toll on my physical and emotional well-being. That’s why I strive to maintain a balance between work and leisure time.

The Stress of Juggling Multiple Roles

As a student working multiple jobs, I’ve had to learn to manage my time effectively. It’s not easy, and every moment of leisure can be overshadowed by anxiety about forgotten deadlines or tasks. My goal is to find a balance between work and personal life, where I can pursue my passions without sacrificing my well-being.

Redefining Success

In a society that glorifies workaholics, it’s challenging to prioritize self-care and flexibility. My vision for myself is to do work that I’m good at and passionate about, while maintaining a personal identity that isn’t defined solely by my career. I want to work hard, but also have time for relaxation, breaks, and Tuesday afternoon naps.

A Glimmer of Hope

As I near graduation, I’m looking forward to having more time to figure out my career and prioritize my personal life. I want to earn a living without sacrificing my humanity. When I complain about being busy or tired, it’s not a humblebrag – it’s a genuine desire for a life that allows me to sleep in and enjoy the simple things.

Embracing Humanity

In the end, being available and flexible doesn’t mean I’m not working hard. It means I’m human, and I deserve to prioritize my well-being alongside my career goals.