Embracing Solitude: The Power of Solo Travel
As I reflect on the past year, I realize that I’ve been surrounded by people almost constantly. Between getting married, growing my business, and traveling extensively, it’s been a whirlwind of excitement and new experiences. But amidst all the chaos, I’ve come to appreciate the importance of solitude. I’ve been taking long walks alone, watching movies by myself, and enjoying quiet moments at restaurants and parks. It’s essential for me to recharge and maintain my sense of self.
The Gift of Solo Travel
When I received $2,000 in Delta credit as compensation for taking a later flight, I knew exactly how I wanted to use it. I decided to visit my soon-to-be family-in-law, whom I hadn’t seen in nearly a year. This trip would be different, though – I would be traveling alone. As someone who’s grown accustomed to sharing experiences with friends, family, and colleagues, solo travel would be a refreshing change of pace.
Finding Silence in a Noisy World
Over the past week, I’ve spent countless hours alone, whether on trains, flights, or exploring new cities. This solitude has allowed me to tune in to my thoughts, feelings, and desires. As the founder of a small business, it’s easy to get caught up in the fast-paced world of the internet. But being alone has given me the opportunity to slow down, reflect, and prioritize what truly matters.
Learning to Rely on Myself
Solo travel has also taught me the value of self-reliance. When you’re traveling with others, there’s always someone to share the burden of responsibility. But when you’re alone, you must be your own guardian. I had to plan every detail of my trip, from coordinating transportation to remembering codes and keys. It was daunting at first, but ultimately empowering.
The Power of Preparation
To prepare for my trip, I created a detailed dossier of information, including a spreadsheet, to-do lists, and essential contact details. It may seem excessive, but having this information at my fingertips made me feel safe, prepared, and in control. I realized that taking care of myself is not just about logistics; it’s about trusting myself to make decisions and navigate uncertainty.
The Serenity of Planning Ahead
As I look back on my solo travel experience, I’m grateful for the sense of calm and confidence it’s given me. I’ve learned to appreciate the beauty of planning ahead, of taking care of myself like I would a loved one. Solo travel has reminded me that I’m capable of handling whatever life throws my way, and that’s a truly liberating feeling.
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