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Embracing Change: Lessons Learned from My Move to the UK

As someone who thrives on structure and planning, I never thought I’d be the type to make a spontaneous move across the Atlantic. But, I’m also a lover of change and adventure, and when the opportunity to relocate to the UK presented itself, I couldn’t resist.

A Dream Come True

I first fell in love with England during a study abroad program in my undergrad years. The culture, the people, the pubs – everything about it felt like home. So, when I returned to Canada, I knew I had to find a way to make it back to the UK someday. Three years later, I saved up enough money and applied for a work visa. With a plan in place, I quit my job, packed my bags, and boarded a plane to London.

Lucky Breaks and Low Expenses

I’m fortunate to be living with a friend who doesn’t charge rent, and we split bills and food expenses. My cozy village is just 20 minutes from London by train, and I can walk to most places I need to go. With low expenses, I thought finding a job would be the biggest challenge. But, I was wrong.

Mistakes and Missteps

Despite my planning, I’ve made a few mistakes that have cost me time and money. Here are three lessons I’ve learned the hard way:

1. Don’t Leave Loose Ends

Before leaving Canada, I should have tied up all loose ends, including updating my address with the Canadian Revenue Agency. Instead, I waited until I arrived in the UK and got hit with an overseas phone charge.

2. Read Job Postings Carefully

After two months of job hunting, I finally got an interview for a library assistant position. But, halfway through the interview, I realized the pay was pro rata, which meant I’d be earning less than half the posted salary. I was left wondering if I should take the job or keep looking.

3. Don’t Ignore Your Budget

I transferred a significant amount of money to my UK account, but I’ve been blowing through it quickly. Between takeout, weekend trips, and being overly generous with my friend, I’ve ignored my budget and depleted my emergency fund. It’s time to get back on track and prioritize my finances.

Getting Back on Track

While these mistakes have been costly, I know I can correct them. By holding myself accountable and making a few changes, I can ensure that my time in the UK remains exciting and stress-free. After all, that’s what this adventure is all about – embracing change and making the most of this incredible opportunity.