Rethinking Feminism: Embracing My Unconventional Path to Happiness

Rethinking My Life Plan

Growing up, I was convinced that marriage was not for me. My childhood fantasies revolved around a high-powered career, a stylish wardrobe, and a menagerie of pets. My Barbie doll was the epitome of independence, running a magazine and paying her own way. I was determined to follow in her footsteps.

A Change of Heart

But life had other plans. In college, I met Zach, and my priorities shifted. We became inseparable, and before I knew it, I was building a future around him. I traded in my dreams of New York City apartments and solo adventures for a life with my partner.

The Myth of Mutual Exclusivity

For a long time, I struggled with the idea that I had chosen Zach over my career. I believed that women could either have a successful career or a happy marriage, but not both. It wasn’t until I took a step back and reevaluated my priorities that I realized this was a false dichotomy.

Breaking Free from Stereotypes

Being married doesn’t mean you’re any less of a woman. Being a stay-at-home mom or a working mom doesn’t define your worth. Women are capable of achieving their dreams, no matter what path they choose. We can have it all, and it’s okay to define “all” on our own terms.

Embracing My New Reality

I used to beat myself up over not taking bigger risks in my career. But having a family and a career aren’t mutually exclusive. I’ve learned that women can have both, and it’s okay to choose a different path. My life may not look like I envisioned it as a child, but it’s mine, and I’m learning to love it.

About the Author

Steph lives in Nashville, TN, where she spends her days working in a cubicle and her nights chasing her dreams. You can find her attempting to blog at simplisticsteph.com, indulging in Indian food, or sipping coffee at a local café.

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