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Embracing Imperfection: The Freedom to Spend on What Brings Us Joy

The age-old adage “nobody’s perfect” resonates deeply when it comes to our financial decisions. We’ve all made impulse purchases or splurged on something that didn’t quite fit into our budget. But why do we feel the need to justify or hide these expenditures?

Breaking Free from Guilt and Shame

Rather than dwelling on past expenses, let’s focus on what really matters: our financial well-being. Regular check-ins can help us refine our spending habits and appreciate those indulgences for what they are – wants. And it’s essential to acknowledge that wants are a natural part of life.

The Power of Self-Reflection

I’ve taken the liberty of sharing my own unnecessary purchases from the first quarter of 2018. This list may seem indulgent, but it’s a reflection of my priorities and what brings me happiness. From coffee shop visits to smoothies and eyelash extensions, each expense has a story behind it.

The Importance of Mental Health

My “happy place” is Avenue coffee shop, where I go to work, relax, and feel at ease. This $75.96 CAD expenditure may seem frivolous, but it’s a vital part of my mental health routine. Similarly, my eyelash extensions have saved me time and money on makeup, giving me the confidence to go barefaced.

A Shift in Perspective

I’ve come to realize that not every financial decision needs justification. If we can afford to make these choices and feel good about them, then we shouldn’t need to explain ourselves. It’s time to stop shaming people for their spending habits and start supporting them for knowing what brings them joy.

The True Meaning of Financial Success

Financial success is a personal and unique concept. While saving, budgeting, and planning for the future are crucial, it’s equally important to enjoy the present. Let’s celebrate our individual achievements and appreciate the freedom to spend on what makes us happy.

Breaking the Cycle of Shame

I’m guilty of judging others for their financial choices, but I want to change that. As long as we’re achieving our goals and focusing on bettering our financial lives, we’re doing everything right. Let’s embrace our imperfections and support each other in our financial journeys.

Have you ever felt shamed for spending money on something that brought you joy? Share your experiences in the comments!