She Strengthens

New Year, New Budget, Same Old Spending Habits

As the calendar flipped to 2019, I was determined to revamp my budget and become a “smart spender.” I updated my spreadsheet with brighter colors and bold fonts, eager to track my expenses and make responsible financial decisions. But, like many well-intentioned New Year’s resolutions, my enthusiasm fizzled out quickly.

The Trouble with Trendy Purchases

I fell prey to the allure of trendy items, convincing myself that they would bring me joy and make me fit in. Here are five purchases I regret making this year:

Spiral Hair Ties: A Fashion Faux Pas

I was swayed by a stylish friend’s spiral hair tie, which she wore as a chic wrist accessory. I imagined how it would complement my gold watch, so I splurged on a 3-pack for $7.99. Big mistake. The hair ties were uncomfortable, prone to getting stuck, and didn’t live up to their trendy hype. To add insult to injury, I later found cheaper and better options at Nordstrom Rack.

The Instagrammable Brunch That Wasn’t

I met a friend at a trendy vegetarian spot, hoping to indulge in a delicious meal and snap a perfect Instagram photo. The $20 meal was underwhelming, and the cafe was nearly empty. To make matters worse, we were seated next to another group, making me feel self-conscious about taking a photo.

A Turmeric Latte That Left a Bitter Taste

On a restricted diet, eating out is a challenge. When friends suggested dinner at a trendy vegan spot, I pre-ate at the library and planned to order nothing. But, I caved and bought a $10 turmeric latte to feel included. The tiny cup was a rude awakening, especially since I could make the same drink at home.

Hoop Earrings That Didn’t Deliver

I wanted to jump on the minimalist earring trend, but the cute options on Etsy were too pricey. I settled for hypoallergenic “sleeper” hoops at a drugstore, hoping they would achieve the look I wanted. Unfortunately, they were still too big and didn’t live up to my expectations.

The “Mom’s Lasagna” Pizza That Was a Lie

I was excited to try a lasagna-inspired pizza at a classic pizzeria. However, the “Mom’s Lasagna” specialty pizza was a disappointment – just cheddar cheese and ham. It was a harsh reminder that sometimes, trendy foods don’t live up to their promise.

Lessons Learned

Looking back, I realize that my spending mistakes stem from trying to fit in or follow trends. To break this cycle, I need to evaluate my purchases through a lens of personal happiness and desire. By doing so, I hope to cultivate a stronger sense of self and a healthier relationship with my wallet.