Embracing My Inner Busybody: How My Personality Trait Became a Strength
As I reflect on the summer after my senior year of high school, I realize that my boyfriend’s candid observation about my nature was a wake-up call. He teasingly labeled me a “busybody,” and at first, I was taken aback. However, I soon came to acknowledge the truth in his words. I have an innate difficulty with idleness, always feeling the need to be engaged in some activity.
Fast-forward to the present, and I’ve undergone significant transformations. I’ve started college as a music major, landed an on-campus job in the student mailroom, and even taken on a second major in English with a minor in creative writing. I’ve also become a teaching assistant and writer for the University Communications department. Oh, and I finally obtained my driver’s license!
The Positives of Being a Busybody
Through self-reflection, I’ve come to appreciate the advantages of my busy nature.
Planning Prodigy
My constant need to stay active has turned me into an exceptional planner. With my boyfriend living in a different state, I’ve developed a knack for organizing fun, memory-making, and budget-friendly activities for us to enjoy together. This skill has been invaluable in making the most of our limited time together.
Value Beyond Monetary Gain
I’ve learned to recognize the value in experiences and skills beyond mere financial compensation. When I took on my writing job, I knew it wouldn’t significantly increase my earnings. However, it allowed me to gain valuable experience working remotely and build my writing portfolio.
Striving for Excellence
My busy nature pushes me to deliver my best work consistently. This dedication has helped me forge strong professional relationships with my professors, securing my TA position and putting me on track to become the student manager in the mailroom.
Learning to Say No
One crucial lesson I’ve learned is the importance of setting boundaries. With multiple commitments, it’s easy to overextend myself. During Advising and Scheduling Weeks, I often struggle to balance my workload and class schedules. However, I’ve come to realize that sometimes, saying no to certain opportunities is necessary to maintain my overall well-being.
Making the Most of Time
Finally, being a busybody has taught me to optimize my time. During my first year of college, I felt lonely due to my long-distance relationship. This year, I’ve made a conscious effort to create a social circle and ensure regular dates with my boyfriend, utilizing my planning skills to make the most of our time together.
In conclusion, embracing my busy nature has opened doors to new opportunities and personal growth. I’m excited to see where this trait takes me in the future.
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