She Strengthens

Beyond Happy Hour: Unconventional Ways to Make Friends

Moving to a new country where I barely spoke the language was a daunting experience. Feeling alone for months, I knew I had to find alternative ways to make friends beyond the usual happy hour gatherings. Here are the strategies that worked for me, and why I believe they’re effective.

Getting Involved in Your Community

Before joining my local neighborhood association, I never thought to look for friendships in such groups. These organizations often get a bad rap, but they can be a great way to meet like-minded people who share your passion for making a difference. I met one of my closest friends through our neighborhood association, and we bonded over our efforts to create positive change in our community.

Volunteering for a Cause You Care About

Volunteering opportunities can be a great way to meet new people who share your interests. Whether it’s a one-time event or a regular commitment, volunteering allows you to make a difference while meeting potential friends. I’ve had great experiences volunteering at local art events, and it’s a great way to meet people who share your passions.

Nature Walks and Outdoor Meet-Ups

Not everyone loves the outdoors, but using meet-ups to go for a walk, kayaking trip, or bike ride can be a great way to combine exercise with socializing. I’ve found that these settings lead to more in-depth conversations and a sense of camaraderie. Plus, it’s a great way to stay active and enjoy nature.

Taking the Initiative to Connect

Finally, I’ve learned that making an effort to ask people to grab coffee or tea can be a scary but effective way to turn acquaintances into friends. It’s easy to get stuck in a cycle of meeting people but not taking the next step. By being the one to initiate plans, you can show others that you’re interested in getting to know them better. Just be sure to respect people’s boundaries and don’t be too pushy.

The Benefits of Unconventional Friend-Making

These strategies may not be as flashy as happy hour gatherings, but they offer a more meaningful way to connect with others. By pursuing activities and causes you care about, you’re more likely to meet people who share your values and interests. And who knows, you might just find a lifelong friend along the way.