She Strengthens

Transforming a Spare Room into a Cozy Retreat

From Cluttered Space to Dream Guest Room

A few years ago, my husband and I stumbled upon a rare gem in Toronto’s competitive real estate market: a reasonably priced apartment with a walkable, sociable neighborhood and a coveted second bedroom. We envisioned a serene office where we could focus on our hobbies – writing and model trains – and eventually, a cozy guest room for friends and family.

The Road to Reality

However, for nearly two years, the room remained a storage space, accumulating clutter and serving various purposes, from a makeshift closet to a temporary bedroom for a friend. We’d discuss our plans, but procrastination took over. It wasn’t until I set a goal to make one update per month that progress began. I didn’t have a specific vision in mind; I just wanted to create a space that felt comfortable and authentic.

Lessons Learned

Through this journey, I discovered several key takeaways for building the perfect second bedroom/office space without breaking the bank:

Get Real-Life Inspiration

Ditch the curated Instagram feeds and explore real-life spaces that inspire you. Visit local businesses, community centers, and even tattoo parlors to get a feel for how spaces are lived in, not just staged for photography.

Create a Chic Gallery Wall

Frame eclectic items that reflect your personality, from vintage posters to quirky trinkets. Mix high and low, old and new, to create a unique and visually appealing space.

Balance Practicality with Personality

Combine functional items, like wire wall organizers, with personal mementos to add character to your space. Don’t be afraid to mix and match styles to create a look that’s truly yours.

Keep Hardware Simple and Elegant

Opt for sleek, understated designs that blend into the room, making it feel larger and brighter. Invest in simple, affordable hardware, like resistance rods and curtains, to create a clean and airy atmosphere.

Dried Flowers: A Sweet Compromise

Fresh flowers can be expensive and fleeting. Consider dried bouquets, which add a touch of elegance without the maintenance. Plus, they’re a one-time purchase!

Barter for Big-Ticket Items

Use platforms like Bunz or Craigslist to find gently used furniture at a fraction of the cost. Be patient, set a deadline, and don’t settle for anything less than what you want.

Dress Up Affordable Bedding

You don’t need to break the bank on luxurious bedding. Opt for affordable options, like IKEA’s Grusblad, and dress them up with throw pillows and blankets. The presentation is key to creating a cozy, inviting atmosphere.

Embrace Your Personal Touches

Don’t hide your personal items; instead, incorporate them into the space. A few strategically placed yoga blocks, books, or sentimental trinkets can make the room feel more lived-in and welcoming.

By following these tips, you can transform your spare room into a cozy retreat that reflects your personality and style, without draining your bank account. Happy decorating!