She Strengthens

The High Cost of Relocation: A Reality Check

As I navigate the uncharted waters of relocating from Pittsburgh to Boston, I’m forced to confront the harsh realities of housing costs and the privileges that come with being a budget-conscious millennial. The contrast between my experience and those who are housing insecure or homeless is stark, and it’s a reminder that perspective is everything.

A Conscious Choice

My move to Boston was a deliberate decision, driven by my husband’s career opportunities. This luxury of choice is not afforded to everyone, and I’m reminded that many people relocate due to necessity, rather than desire. Having the time and resources to plan ahead has been a game-changer, and I’m grateful for the ability to do so.

Privilege and Perspective

As I searched for housing, I was struck by the privilege that comes with being a thirty-something professional with good credit. We were approved for our chosen apartment with ease, while others may face rejection and uncertainty. It’s a harsh reminder of the systemic inequalities that exist in the rental market.

The Cost of Moving

Moving is expensive, and the costs add up quickly. From renting a U-Haul to ponying up a security deposit, every step of the process comes with a price tag. While it’s stressful for me, I’m aware that it would be even more daunting for those living paycheck to paycheck or without a safety net.

A Safety Net

Luckily, my husband and I were able to plan ahead and save aggressively before making the move. We also have a support system that could provide a financial lifeline if needed. Not everyone is so fortunate, and it’s a sobering reminder of the importance of building a safety net.

Temporary Inconvenience

As I navigate the challenges of temporary housing, I’m reminded that it’s just that – temporary. Many people face similar struggles for months or even years, and it’s a privilege to have an expiration date on my current reality.

Keeping it Real

While moving is never easy, I’m trying to keep things in perspective. With an estimated 552,000 people experiencing homelessness in the United States, I’m grateful for the luxuries I have. Sometimes, all it takes is a healthy dose of perspective to appreciate what we have, rather than getting caught up in what others have.