She Strengthens

Living with Guys Taught Me to Rethink My Spending Habits

I spent my early twenties living with three guys, and while it wasn’t always easy, it taught me some valuable lessons about money management. As the only woman in the apartment, I was forced to adapt to a different perspective on spending, and it ended up changing my approach to budgeting.

Tech Products: Function Over Form

One of the biggest takeaways from my experience was the importance of prioritizing function over form when it comes to tech products. I used to fall for cute, “girly” designs, but I learned the hard way that they often come with a higher price tag and inferior performance. Now, I do my research and read unbiased customer reviews to ensure I’m getting the best value for my money.

Investing in Quality Home Items

Living with guys who didn’t prioritize taking care of their belongings taught me the importance of investing in quality home items. Instead of going for the cheapest option, I now focus on finding pieces that I truly care about and want to take care of. This approach may cost more upfront, but it’s worth it in the long run.

The Value of Long-Lasting Clothing

My roommates may not have invested in home items, but one of them was passionate about high-quality clothing. While I won’t splurge on $300 jeans, I’ve learned to appreciate the value of investing in clothes that will last. I now consider the cost-per-use of my purchases and opt for timeless pieces that won’t need to be replaced anytime soon.

Taking Control of Product Assembly

I used to outsource product assembly and other tasks, but living with guys who were handy and self-sufficient taught me that I’m capable of doing these things myself. I’ve learned to master basic skills and tools, and I’m proud to say that I can now assemble furniture and tackle other projects on my own.

Avoiding Unused Gym Equipment

Let’s face it: buying home gym equipment is often a waste of money. I’ve seen it firsthand with my roommates, who would purchase expensive equipment only to use it a few times before abandoning it. I’ve learned to stick with fitness classes, which provide the accountability I need to stay motivated.

Food Products: Substance Over Style

My roommates used to tease me about my love of fancy, over-packaged food products. While I still enjoy a beautifully designed bottle of almond milk, I’ve learned to prioritize substance over style. I now focus on buying high-quality products that offer real value, rather than just looking good on my kitchen counter.

Streamlining My Grooming Routine

Finally, living with guys has taught me to simplify my grooming routine. I used to have a shelf full of products, but I’ve learned to combine tasks and focus on the essentials. I now use conditioner as shaving cream and make my own body scrub using raw sugar and lemons. By cutting back on unnecessary products, I’ve been able to save money and declutter my bathroom.