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Navigating Love in the Time of Social Distancing

As I mark over a year of singledom, I’ve had ample time to focus on self-improvement and exploration. With online dating attempts few and far between, I decided to take the plunge again – only to be met with the unexpected twist of a pandemic. As people worldwide huddled indoors, I wondered: what does social distancing mean for singles like me?

A Surge in Online Dating

Research revealed that online dating apps have seen a significant increase in usage since the pandemic began. With face-to-face interactions on hold, I asked myself: can romantic connections still be made in the virtual realm? I decided to put this theory to the test, trying out new apps like Bumble and Hinge, while revisiting old favorites like OkCupid.

Embracing the Awkwardness

After connecting with a guy on OkCupid, we agreed to take our conversations to the next level – a virtual date via Zoom. The initial few minutes were, unsurprisingly, awkward. But as we navigated this new type of intimacy, I found that the relaxed atmosphere actually helped us address the awkwardness head-on.

The Benefits of Virtual Dating

Without the possibility of physical contact, the focus shifts from hookups to genuine connections. My date and I talked for hours, and it was clear we were both interested in getting to know each other. The virtual setup also encouraged creativity, leading us to plan a quirky online picnic for our next date.

Being Yourself in Uncertain Times

As we navigate these unprecedented circumstances, it’s easier to be yourself – flaws and all. My date’s positive attitude and future plans despite the current crisis told me a lot about his personality. And if things didn’t go well, I could always blame a poor connection and end the date early!

A New Era of Dating

In conclusion, my virtual date experience was a resounding success. Despite the initial awkwardness, the convenience and relaxed atmosphere made it an enjoyable experience. If you’re considering virtual dating during lockdown, I say give it a try – you never know where it might lead you.