She Strengthens

Rediscovering Valuable Life Lessons in My Favorite Childhood Sitcom

Growing up, family time was synonymous with primetime television. Every night, we’d gather around the TV, eagerly awaiting our favorite shows. One particular sitcom stands out in my memory – Girlfriends. The popular early 2000s show followed the lives of four Black women navigating love, careers, and friendships in Los Angeles. As a young viewer, I was fascinated by the relatable struggles and triumphs of Joan, Toni, Lynn, and Maya.

Money Lessons Learned from My Favorite Characters

Recently, I revisited Girlfriends on Netflix, and this time, as an adult, I was struck by the valuable financial lessons woven throughout the series. Here are four key takeaways that resonated with me:

Don’t Rely on Others for Financial Security

Toni’s quest for a wealthy partner was a recurring theme throughout the series. Her desire for financial stability through her partner’s income was a stark reminder of what not to do. As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that financial independence and open communication with my partner are essential. It’s crucial to align our spending, saving, and financial goals, rather than relying on someone else to foot the bill.

Live Within Your Means

Joan and Maya’s approach to living within their financial means was inspiring. Despite Joan’s high-paying job as an attorney, she drove an older model Camry, and Maya stayed on Joan’s couch rent-free while figuring out her life. Their resourcefulness and frugality encouraged me to adopt a similar mindset. By living below or within my means, I’ve been able to achieve financial stability and peace of mind.

Diversify Your Income Streams

Maya’s entrepreneurial spirit and various side hustles were a testament to her determination to create multiple income streams. Her ventures, although sometimes questionable, inspired me to explore alternative revenue sources. Whether it’s selling items online or freelancing, I’ve learned the importance of diversifying my income to achieve financial security.

Think Carefully About Graduate School

Lynn’s pursuit of multiple post-graduate degrees, despite ultimately not using them, was a cautionary tale. Her story made me reflect on my own interests and career aspirations. Instead of accumulating debt through multiple graduate degrees, I’ve opted to explore my passions through various jobs and experiences. This approach has allowed me to find a graduate degree that truly aligns with my goals, without breaking the bank.

A Lasting Legacy

Twenty years after its debut, Girlfriends remains a beloved and influential show. Beyond its financial lessons, it has paved the way for future generations of Black women in television and continues to inspire new audiences on Netflix. Its impact is a testament to the power of representation and the importance of embracing vulnerability, resilience, and complexity in storytelling.