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Rewatching The Hills: Uncovering Life Lessons for My Twenties

As I settled in to rewatch The Hills during quarantine, I expected a nostalgic trip back to my pre-teen years. Instead, I discovered a treasure trove of advice for navigating my twenties.

Roommate Relationships: A Blueprint for Success

Sharing a living space can be a minefield, but Lauren’s experiences with Heidi, Audrina, and Lo offer valuable insights. Firstly, it’s crucial to set clear expectations and boundaries with your roommates. The “no living with best friends” rule is often cited, but Lo and Lauren’s lifelong friendship proved to be the exception. Their secret to success lay in their established trust and understanding.

The Pitfalls of Moving in with Your Partner

Heidi’s decision to move in with Spencer Pratt serves as a cautionary tale. Don’t rush into cohabitation out of necessity or dependence. Discuss finances, respect each other’s opinions, and establish ground rules for solo outings and house guests. Maintaining individuality and independence is key to a healthy relationship.

The Evolution of Adult Friendships

As we grow older, our friendships naturally evolve. It’s okay to let go of relationships that no longer serve a purpose. Your friend from college can remain just that – a friend from college. Don’t feel obligated to force a connection beyond what feels natural.

Setting Social Boundaries

Just because you’re invited to a social event doesn’t mean you must attend. The Hills often depicts characters weighing the pros and cons of attending parties or events. Remember, a night in or a quiet dinner can be a better choice than a drama-filled outing. And, in reality, you don’t have to worry about running into the same small circle of people.

Career Development: Embracing Change and Growth

The Hills highlights the different career paths of its main characters, showcasing the importance of exploring opportunities for growth. Leaving a job, whether on good or bad terms, is never easy, but it’s essential to recognize your professional value and move on when necessary. Whitney’s transition from behind-the-scenes roles to a hands-on stylist is a great example of embracing change and pursuing what you want.

By rewatching The Hills, I uncovered a wealth of advice for navigating my twenties. From roommate relationships to career development, these life lessons will stay with me long after the credits roll.