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Rising from the Ashes: 10 Lessons Learned from 2020

As we bid farewell to a tumultuous year, we’re left with a mix of emotions – relief, gratitude, and a hint of optimism. If you made it through 2020, you deserve a badge of honor for surviving one of the most challenging years in recent history. To help us move forward, we asked our readers to share their plans for 2021, inspired by the lessons they learned from the past year. Here’s what they had to say:

Lessons in Self-Care

Mel M. is prioritizing her financial health by reducing social media usage and investing in herself. She’s connecting with like-minded individuals who share her goals of wealth creation and healthy living. By focusing on personal growth, Mel is taking control of her life and finances.

Learning to Say No

Esther Y., an independent business owner and educator, realized the importance of setting boundaries. In 2021, she’s committed to saying no to non-essential tasks that drain her energy and saying yes to self-care. By doing so, she’s reclaiming her time and prioritizing her well-being.

Finding Balance

Katlyn Stevens, a freelancer, is dedicated to achieving a healthy work-life balance. She’s scheduling time for personal activities, like going for walks, and encouraging others to do the same. By prioritizing her happiness, Katlyn is creating a more sustainable lifestyle.

Budgeting for Success

K. Stevens and her husband are taking control of their finances by creating a structured budget. They’re committed to tracking their expenses, saving, and cutting unnecessary spending. By being intentional with their money, they’re building a stronger financial foundation.

Reclaiming Identity

Chelsey, who was laid off during the pandemic, is rebuilding her life outside of work. She’s refusing to give 110% to her career and instead, focusing on creating a fulfilling life beyond her job. By doing so, Chelsey is rediscovering her sense of purpose.

Embracing Optimism

Soraya is letting go of anxiety and reclaiming her child-like optimism. She’s trusting herself more and recognizing that comfort zones can be limiting. By embracing change, Soraya is unlocking her full potential.

From Wine to Tea

Jazmine Reed-Clark has replaced wine-fueled nights with hot tea. She’s reduced her alcohol consumption and prioritized her physical and mental health. By making small changes, Jazmine is creating a healthier lifestyle.

Breaking Free from Budget Constraints

Keertana Anandraj is abandoning strict budgeting guidelines and embracing her “new normal.” She’s investing in a larger living space and prioritizing her needs over her wants. By being flexible, Keertana is creating a more sustainable lifestyle.

Embracing Alone Time

Fae, who initially struggled with lockdown, has discovered the joy of alone time. She’s learned to appreciate the peace, predictability, and privilege of solitude. By embracing her independence, Fae is finding liberation.

Confronting Failure

One anonymous reader shared her heart-wrenching story of struggling with job hunting and failure. She’s learned to be kinder to herself and prioritize her well-being. By recognizing her unhealthy relationship with failure, she’s taking steps towards a more compassionate and fulfilling life.

These stories are a testament to the human spirit’s ability to rise from the ashes. As we move forward into 2021, let’s remember to prioritize our well-being, be kind to ourselves, and embrace change.