Embracing Solo on Valentine’s Day
As Valentine’s Day approaches, it’s natural to feel a twinge of loneliness if you’re not part of a romantic duo. But why let societal pressure get you down? This year, take control and celebrate your independence with these thoughtful self-care ideas.
Treat Yourself to a Little Luxury
Pamper yourself with a massage, facial, or other self-care treatments. Many establishments are taking COVID-19 precautions seriously, so you can indulge in some relaxation without compromising your safety. If you’re not comfortable venturing out, create your own spa experience at home with face masks, manicures, and other DIY delights.
Indulge in a Fancy Feast
Why not treat yourself to a decadent dinner, complete with surf and turf, crab legs, and wine? You deserve to indulge in your favorite dishes, even if it’s just for one. Pair your meal with a great movie or TV show, and make it a night to remember.
Galentine’s Day Celebrations
If you’re not keen on spending Valentine’s Day alone, gather your single friends for a fun-filled Galentine’s Day celebration. Watch rom-coms, play games, or simply enjoy each other’s company over dinner and drinks.
Anti-Vday Watch Party
Thanks to modern technology, you can still connect with friends while social distancing. Host a virtual watch party on Hulu or another streaming service, and enjoy a movie or show together, even if you’re apart.
Declutter, Deep Clean, and Decompress
Sometimes, a productive day can be the best therapy. Spend your morning and afternoon decluttering, deep cleaning, and organizing your space. By evening, you’ll feel accomplished and relaxed, and you can reward yourself with some well-deserved downtime.
What to Avoid
Remember, this day is all about you. Steer clear of things that might bring you down, such as:
- Doom scrolling on Instagram, where curated perfection can make you feel inferior
- Pseudo-stalking your ex on social media, which can only lead to hurt feelings
- Texting your ex while emotional, which can reopen old wounds
This Valentine’s Day, choose to focus on self-love and self-care. You deserve to celebrate your independence and enjoy every moment of it!
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