She Strengthens

Rediscovering Family and Financial Freedom

A Break-Up’s Silver Lining

After my break-up, I realized that my family’s warnings about my ex had been spot on. They had seen the red flags early on, but I had ignored them. The biggest regret I have is the time I wasted on the wrong relationship. Life is made up of moments, and I was stuck in the wrong ones. But then, everything changed.

The Comfort of Family

When the pandemic hit, I moved back home to be with the people who matter most. My family’s unconditional love and support were a beacon of hope during a difficult time. Being surrounded by them made me realize that I’m my best self when we’re all together, creating new memories and sharing in each other’s company.

A New Reality

With the shift to remote work, I got to experience a new sense of freedom. I could spend more time with my family, explore new places, and enjoy quiet nights in. The best part? I was saving almost everything I earned. No more expensive rent, gym memberships, or dining out. My account was growing, and I was excited to see the possibilities.

A Financial Turning Point

The break-up had left me with a shared French apartment, but I was determined to buy out my ex’s share. With my newfound savings, I was able to make up the difference and even pad my account for legal fees and furnishings. The bank still needs to approve me as the sole owner, but I’m hopeful it will all work out.

From $43k to $105k

In just one year, I went from having $43k in my bank account to a staggering $105k. The secret? Cutting out unnecessary expenses and saving aggressively. I’m now on track to rebuild my emergency fund and prove to the bank that I have enough liquidity to take on the mortgage alone.

Investing in Happiness

I chose to invest in a Parisian apartment because it’s a city that brings me joy, much like my family does. The low mortgage rate, minimal condo fees, and classic Haussmann architecture all drew me in. I envision myself sipping coffee, looking out at the park, and planning my day in my new home.

The Power of Support

The pandemic brought its challenges, but it also brought people together. Having my family’s support and encouragement has been instrumental in helping me achieve my financial goals. We’ve created new memories together, and those are the ones that truly matter.