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Lost in the Moment: What to Do When a Condom Gets Stuck

Stay Calm and Take Action

Panic sets in when you realize the condom has vanished during sex. Don’t worry, it’s not uncommon, and we’ve got you covered. Experts weigh in on what to do when a condom gets stuck inside your vagina.

It’s Not Lost Forever

First, take a deep breath. The condom isn’t actually lost inside your pelvic cavity. It’s just lodged at the top of your vagina, and you can retrieve it. Your vaginal canal stops at your cervix, so it can’t go any higher than a penis or sex toy.

Retrieving the Condom

Try pulling the stuck condom out yourself. Wash your hands, relax, and take your time. If you need assistance, ask a partner or close friend to help. Remember, your comfort zone is key.

What If You Can’t Reach It?

Don’t insert anything other than your fingers to retrieve the condom. If you can’t reach it, see your healthcare provider. They’ll help you retrieve the condom safely. Explain your situation when making the appointment, and they’ll take care of the rest.

After the Condom is Out

Once the condom is removed, consider emergency contraception and STI testing. If the condom fell off during sex, you’re at risk for unintended pregnancy. Take Plan B or another emergency contraception method within 72 hours to prevent pregnancy.

STI Testing

Get tested for STIs, even if you’re not showing symptoms. If you think you may have been exposed to HIV, ask your doctor about post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP). Follow up with an HIV test after completing the regimen.

Why Condoms Get Stuck

Condoms often fall off when the penis becomes flaccid after ejaculation or loses sexual stimulation. Make sure to wear the right size condom, and put it on correctly. A condom that’s too large can slip off during sex.

Partner Support

If you’re the partner with a penis, speak up if the condom goes missing! Help your partner retrieve the condom, share your STI status, and offer to get tested together. Discuss how to handle unintended pregnancy and share the cost of emergency contraception or pregnancy tests.

Preventing Future Mishaps

To avoid stuck condoms in the future:

• Wear the proper size condom
• Use lube that doesn’t break down condoms
• Hold the condom at the base of the penis during withdrawal
• Remove condoms immediately after intercourse

Remember, staying calm and taking action quickly will help you retrieve the stuck condom and prevent any potential consequences.