She Strengthens

Breaking Free from Taboo

Growing up in a small, traditional town, I was taught that sex was a taboo topic. Masturbation was seen as a sinful and dangerous habit, and orgasms were a mystery. This mentality followed me into college, where I was warned that solo pleasure was a destructive habit that could ruin relationships.

Shifting Perspectives

After getting married, my views on sex began to change. I wanted to embrace my body and improve my sex life, but masturbation remained off-limits. I believed the myth that it would ruin my relationship with my husband. However, when I discovered he had a different perspective, I was forced to confront my own beliefs.

Confronting Fears

One candid conversation with my husband revealed that I was still a prisoner to my upbringing. Despite breaking free from other self-imposed rules, I couldn’t shake off the guilt associated with masturbation. But I knew it was common, normal, and even enjoyable. It was time to challenge my fears.

Discovering Empowerment

I began to realize that masturbation wasn’t harming my relationship; it was actually improving it. It strengthened my pelvic floor, boosted my mood, and gave me a sense of control over my body. I finally felt confident enough to ask my husband about getting a vibrator, and he was supportive.

Taking Control

I researched and ordered a vibrator online, and when it arrived, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed the experience. It wasn’t just about solo pleasure; it was about taking ownership of my sexuality and wellness. I realized that the limits I’d placed on myself were imaginary, and I was capable of making decisions without external validation.

Ripple Effects

Using a vibrator improved my sex life with my husband, and I became more confident in expressing my desires. I felt more in control of my life, my body, and my wellness. I learned that investing in my own pleasure and sexual wellness was empowering, and the benefits were just a bonus.

Embracing Freedom

I’m done holding on to outdated rules and self-imposed standards. Instead, I’m listening to myself and my body, and learning to be more confident in making decisions that are right for me. I’ve discovered that embracing my sexuality and taking control of my pleasure is the key to true empowerment.