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The Art of Stealthy Lovemaking: Tips for Quiet Sex

When it comes to getting intimate, the last thing you want is an audience. Whether you’re living with roommates or have thin walls, quiet sex can be a game-changer. But don’t worry, it doesn’t have to mean sacrificing excitement for discretion.

Rethinking Intimacy

According to sex educator Lisa Finn, quiet sex can actually be more thrilling due to the adrenaline rush that comes with being secretive. It’s all about liberating yourself from self-consciousness and exploring new ways to express pleasure.

Silent but Deadly Positions

Positions that bring your bodies close together can minimize noise. Try spooning, sidecar 69, or lotus to reduce the sounds of collision. And yes, that might mean putting doggy-style on the backburner until your roommate is out of town.

Floor Play

Take it to the floor to avoid creaky beds and wall bumps. Create a cozy nest of pillows and blankets, and get creative with your positions. You can also use pillows to dampen the knocking sound or invest in a new bed frame or spring-free mattress.

Gamifying Quiet Sex

Turn quiet sex into a game by pretending to be undercover agents or competing to see who can be the quietest for the longest. This can add an extra layer of intimacy and fun to your experience.

Exploring Kinkier Options

If you’ve been wanting to experiment with kinkier sex, quiet sex can be a great opportunity to do so. Just remember to establish boundaries and safe cues with your partner, and do your research on breath and noise control play.

Quieter Toys

Ditch the loud vibrators and opt for quieter options like the Crave by Vesper or Irona Plus by Tenga. You can also try non-vibrating dildos, butt-plugs, steel wands, and cock rings.

Drowning Out the Noise

The shower can be your best friend when it comes to quiet sex. The water will help drown out your sounds, and you can use silicone-based lube to minimize friction. Just remember to use a water-based lube with silicone toys.

Communication is Key

Talk to your roommates or housemates about what kind of sex noises are allowed in your space. Establishing boundaries and consent can make all the difference in creating a comfortable and enjoyable experience for everyone involved.

By following these tips, you can turn quiet sex into a liberating and exciting adventure that brings you closer to your partner. So go ahead, get creative, and enjoy the thrill of stealthy lovemaking!