Love in the Time of Isolation

A Network of Support

When my partner, A, falls ill with a high fever, I spring into crisis mode. Canceling plans and self-isolating becomes the new reality. Luckily, I have a support system in place. A’s wife, B, and I have formed a strong bond, despite being part of a non-traditional relationship. We share memes, vent about our anxieties, and even get pedicures together. Our group chat becomes a lifeline, where we exchange updates, advice, and reassurance.

Viral Anxiety

As A’s condition worsens, I’m stuck at home, feeling helpless. I offer words of comfort and remedies, but I ache to be by A’s side. The distance feels suffocating, especially with the virus spreading rapidly. I’m grateful for B’s updates, but it’s not the same as being there in person.

A Diagnosis Brings Relief

After a video consultation, A is diagnosed with strep throat, not COVID-19. We all breathe a sigh of relief, but our isolation continues. The group chat becomes a hub of activity, filled with memes, pandemic info, and frustration at our separation.

Mental Health Check-Ins

As we navigate this new reality, we prioritize our mental health. A, B, and I regularly check in on each other, discussing our physical and emotional well-being. We acknowledge the challenges of self-isolation, especially for those of us who are neurodiverse.

The Solo-Polyamory Struggle

As a solo-polyamorist, I value my autonomy and independence. However, self-isolation makes it easy to feel alone. I confide in the group about my loneliness, and they rally around me. We find creative ways to stay connected, from phone sex to FaceTime hangouts, and even online game nights.

A Glimmer of Hope

In the midst of uncertainty, we find moments of joy. We laugh, we love, and we remind each other that this too shall pass. I look forward to the day when I can return to my normal life, surrounded by the people and experiences that bring me happiness.