She Strengthens

Love in the Time of Isolation

As I wake up on a Sunday morning, my phone buzzes with a concerning message from my boyfriend, A. He’s come down with a high fever, and I immediately go into crisis mode. Canceling plans and self-isolating becomes the new reality. My heart racing, I inform my roommate and start researching COVID-19 symptoms, matching them with A’s updates.

A Network of Support

Luckily, I have a support system in place. A’s wife, B, and I have formed a strong bond, despite being part of a non-traditional relationship. We share memes, vent about our anxieties, and even get pedicures together. Our group chat becomes a lifeline, where we exchange updates, advice, and reassurance.

Viral Anxiety

As A’s condition worsens, I’m stuck at home, feeling helpless. I spout collective wisdom from my ancestors, offering remedies and words of comfort. B keeps me updated with photos and status reports, but I ache to be by A’s side. The distance feels suffocating, especially with the virus spreading rapidly.

A Diagnosis Brings Relief

After a video consultation, A is diagnosed with strep throat, not COVID-19. We all breathe a sigh of relief, but our isolation continues. The group chat becomes a hub of activity, filled with memes, pandemic info, and frustration at our separation.

Mental Health Check-Ins

As we navigate this new reality, we prioritize our mental health. A, B, and I regularly check in on each other, discussing our physical and emotional well-being. We acknowledge the challenges of self-isolation, especially for those of us who are neurodiverse.

The Solo-Polyamory Struggle

As a solo-polyamorist, I value my autonomy and independence. However, self-isolation makes it easy to feel alone. I confide in the group about my loneliness, and they rally around me. We find creative ways to stay connected, from phone sex to FaceTime hangouts, and even online game nights.

A Glimmer of Hope

In the midst of uncertainty, we find moments of joy. We laugh, we love, and we remind each other that this too shall pass. I look forward to the day when I can return to my normal life, surrounded by the people and experiences that bring me happiness.