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The Ultimate Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex: It’s Not About Size

When it comes to great sex, many of us assume that a bigger penis means a bigger orgasm. But according to Dr. Darius Paduch, associate professor of urology at Weill Cornell Medical College, that’s not necessarily the case. A more modestly sized individual who knows how to use their penis well can help their sexual partner achieve a better orgasm than someone with a larger penis.

It’s About Shape and Technique

Shape is just as important as size when it comes to figuring out which sex positions will curl your toes and which ones might be painful for your partner. Certain positions and skills can make sex mind-blowing for you and your partner, regardless of the size or shape of your penis.

Understanding Different Penis Shapes

There are several common penis shapes, each with its own unique characteristics and challenges.

The Churro: Thin and Long

If you have a thin penis, your partner may not be able to feel it against their vaginal walls. To maximize pleasure, try positions that create more friction, such as doggy style with clitoral stimulation. Your partner can also try keeping their thighs close together to narrow the vaginal canal.

The Italian Salami: Above-Average Girth and Length

If you’re well-endowed, you may need to proceed carefully during intercourse to avoid hurting your partner. Make sure your partner can control the angle, depth, and pace of thrusting, and consider using lubricant to reduce friction.

The Cucumber: Average Girth and Length

If you have an average-sized penis, you’re in luck! Most positions are suitable for you, and you can experiment with different techniques to find what works best for you and your partner.

The Gherkin: Undersized in Girth and Length

If you have a smaller penis, focus on positions that provide the best depth of penetration, such as missionary with pillows under your partner’s butt or a modified plow position. Don’t forget to incorporate oral and manual stimulation to elicit an orgasm.

The Rocket Popsicle: Narrows at the Head

If you have a penis that narrows at the head, doggy style can feel fantastic for your partner, even if you’re longer. The narrowing reduces the chance of hurting your partner during entry.

The Kielbasa: Short and Stout

If you have a thick, shorter penis, choose positions that give you leverage to go deep, such as standing Downward Dog or missionary with your partner’s legs straddled upward.

The Banana: Curved Upward or Downward

If you have a curved penis, consider positions that align with the natural curves of the vagina. For an upward curve, try facing each other, while for a downward curve, “reverse cowgirl” can provide great G-spot stimulation.

The Bottom Line

It’s natural to worry about the size or shape of your penis, but it’s not what you’ve got, it’s how you use it. With the right techniques and positions, any penis can deliver pleasure to a partner. So focus on mastering your skills and communicating with your partner to create a mind-blowing sexual experience.