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The Intimate Truth About Scissoring: Separating Fact from Fiction

When it comes to scissoring, many of us are left with more questions than answers. Is it a myth or a reality? Is it exclusive to lesbians or can anyone enjoy it? Let’s dive into the world of scissoring and uncover the truth behind this intimate act.

Debunking the Myths

Scissoring has two conflicting reputations: it’s either a staple of lesbian sex or a nonexistent fantasy. But what do the numbers say? A survey revealed that 40% of people who identify as lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, or queer engage in scissoring regularly. Additionally, a 2012 study found that 90.8% of women participants reported scissoring during sex with women. It’s clear that scissoring is a real and enjoyable experience for many people.

What is Scissoring, Anyway?

Imagine making a peace sign with each hand and then interweaving them, so the webbing of each hand touches. That’s the basic scissoring position. You can achieve this with both partners lying on their backs or sides, or with one partner straddling the other from an angle. While there’s no consensus on whether scissoring only refers to leg position or vulva-to-vulva contact, it’s historically associated with vulva-having individuals. But remember, there’s no scissoring police – anyone can enjoy it!

Scissoring vs. Tribadism

Scissoring and tribadism (or tribbing) are often used interchangeably, but they’re distinct. Tribbing is when someone rubs their vulva on something for pleasure, whereas scissoring is a specific sex position that may not require a vulva.

The Benefits of Scissoring

Scissoring offers several benefits that can enhance pleasure, including:

• Making eye contact for deeper intimacy and connection
• Locking lips for added sensuality
• Customizing body positions to hit the right spots
• Clitoral stimulation
• Accessibility for different types of penetration

Can You Orgasm from Scissoring?

Yes, some people can! Scissoring is an excellent way to stimulate the clitoris, which is the primary way many people with vulvas orgasm.

Tips for Making Scissoring Feel Good

If you’re new to scissoring, try these tips to make it a satisfying experience:

• Build up to it with foreplay and communication
• Keep your clothes on to heighten anticipation
• Use plenty of lube to reduce friction
• Experiment with different positions and angles
• Combine scissoring with penetration or other forms of stimulation
• Explore other erogenous zones for added pleasure

Scissoring Safety Precautions

While scissoring is generally safe, there are a few things to watch out for:

• Pay attention to flailing limbs to avoid accidental injuries
• Be mindful of your surroundings to avoid falling off the bed
• Always discuss STI status with your partner before engaging in any sexual activity

Scissoring Isn’t for Everyone

And that’s okay! We’re all unique, with our own preferences and desires. If scissoring isn’t your thing, there are countless other ways to enjoy intimate connections with your partner. Experiment, communicate, and find what works best for you.