Finding Solace in Scaly Companions
As I reflect on my childhood, I’m reminded of a peculiar trend that swept through my elementary school – the fascination with tiny frogs. Their miniature aquariums, adorned with vibrant pebbles and bright lids, captivated us all. But while my friends soon lost interest, I grew deeply attached to my two frogs, Kermit and Michigan. Watching them swim peacefully in their pink aquarium was a calming experience that I cherished.
A Lifelong Affinity for Reptiles
When Kermit and Michigan passed away, I longed for their quiet companionship. My parents eventually relented, and I was given a bearded dragon, Glaedr, which my mother affectionately called Gladys. I was enthralled by his hunting habits and amused by his wide, toothy grin. As I grew older, Glaedr became more than just a pet – he was a trusted companion who’d ride on my shoulder as I worked on homework and wrote papers.
A New Chapter, A New Companion
When I moved away to college, I had to leave Glaedr behind. But I soon found myself longing for the comfort of having a reptile by my side. After moving into my own apartment, I welcomed a red-eared slider turtle, Great A’Tuin, or Tuey for short. Her presence brought me solace, especially during the pandemic, when I found myself confined to my home.
The Calming Influence of Reptiles
Tuey’s unflappable calm in the face of uncertainty has been a blessing. She reminds me of a Dorothy Sayers quote, which highlights the fleeting nature of human passions compared to the enduring continuity of nature. As I navigate these trying times, Tuey’s serene demeanor has been a beacon of hope.
Debunking the Myth
Many believe that reptiles don’t form bonds with their owners or crave interaction. However, my experience with Tuey has shown me that this couldn’t be further from the truth. Reptiles do care about their people, especially when treated with kindness and respect. Tuey recognizes my voice, loves to be handled, and enjoys playing with me – whether in her aquarium or on my laptop.
A Sense of Normalcy
As I face an uncertain future, I find comfort in Tuey’s predictable routine. She doesn’t worry about masks or university schedules; she simply exists, content in her own little world. And when I share my anxieties with her, she blinks slowly, as if to say, “Everything will be okay.” In these tumultuous times, Tuey’s presence has been a reminder that, no matter what lies ahead, some things will always remain constant.
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