She Strengthens

When Crisis Brings Out the Best in Us

Last weekend, I received a frantic call from my mom’s assisted living facility – she had fallen and hit her head, and was being rushed to the ER. Without hesitation, I grabbed my essentials and headed to the hospital. As a seasoned caregiver for my uncle with dementia and my mom with Parkinson’s, I’ve grown accustomed to emergency room visits. But this one was different.

A Desolate Hospital Scene

As I arrived, I noticed an eerie emptiness. The parking lot was nearly vacant, and signs plastered on the entrance warned of the coronavirus outbreak. I was greeted by three nurses, who apologetically informed me that visitors were not allowed. But as my mom’s power of attorney, I was eventually permitted to enter.

A Glimpse into the Front Lines

The waiting room was deserted, and the emergency ward was unsettlingly quiet. It was a surreal experience, surrounded by doctors, nurses, security guards, and patients. I was handed a face mask, and as I waited for my mom’s test results, I had ample time to reflect on the lessons we can learn from this pandemic.

Compassion in the Face of Crisis

It’s easy to feel detached from the virus if you’re in a low-risk category. But as I watched my disoriented mother struggle, I realized the gravity of our individual actions. We must acknowledge that our loved ones, like my mom and uncle, are far more vulnerable to the virus. It’s not about us; it’s about protecting those who need our care.

The Front Lines Are Everywhere

Kyle Briggs, a PA-C and advisor to Healthline Media, emphasizes that we all play a role in slowing the spread of the virus. We must take responsibility for our actions, and recognize that extreme measures are necessary to protect our communities.

Staying Informed, Not Overwhelmed

In the coming weeks, it’s essential to stay vigilant, but not obsessive. Avoid information overload, which can lead to panic or paralysis. Instead, adopt a “low-information diet” and focus on what you need to know. Take breaks from the media, and prioritize your emotional and physical well-being.

Breaking Down Walls

Let’s abandon our pretenses and acknowledge our fears. It’s okay to not be okay. By admitting our vulnerabilities, we can build connections with others and foster a sense of community. In these trying times, let’s make an effort to be kind, compassionate, and understanding.

The Power of Human Connection

As I navigated the hospital, I was struck by the warmth and kindness of the staff. They treated us with empathy and respect, offering small gestures of comfort that made a significant difference. This pandemic has reminded us of our natural instincts – to care, to support, and to uplift one another. Let’s continue to spread kindness and compassion, long after the crisis has passed.