She Strengthens

The Art of Connecting with Strangers

As a bartender, I’ve made it my mission to create a welcoming atmosphere where people feel at ease. My secret? A simple yet sincere greeting: “Hi, friends, how you doin’?” It’s more than just a pleasantry – it sets the tone for a sense of community and belonging.

Why Bars Are More Than Just a Drink

People don’t come to bars just to grab a drink; they come to connect with others. Even when you’re alone, you’re never truly solitary. You can strike up a conversation with the person next to you, or with me, your friendly bartender. And it’s not just small talk – I’ve seen genuine friendships, business partnerships, and even romantic connections form over a pint or a plate of wings.

The Joy of Talking to Strangers

Talking to strangers can be a rewarding experience, even in today’s digital age. It’s not about trying to score a phone number or a free drink; it’s about connecting with someone on a human level. And the best part? There are no expectations or strings attached. You can simply enjoy the moment and move on with your day.

A Chance Encounter

I recall a memorable experience during the women’s World Cup championship game last year. When the internet went down, chaos erupted, but then something amazing happened. People started sharing their phone screens, and I asked a woman if I could watch with her. She agreed, and soon we were all cheering together, fast friends for the rest of the game.

The Power of Human Connection

In an era of swipes and likes, it’s easy to forget the value of face-to-face interactions. But there’s something special about connecting with someone in person. You don’t need to worry about ulterior motives or expectations; you can simply enjoy the conversation. And even if it doesn’t lead to a lifelong friendship, the moment itself is still worthwhile.

The #MeToo Movement

The #MeToo movement has shown us the power of shared experiences and empathy. When we connect with strangers, we realize we’re not alone, and that someone else understands our struggles and emotions. It’s a reminder that humans are hardwired to tell stories and share our experiences with others.

The Rush of IRL Connections

While social media has given us a platform to share our thoughts and connect with others from a distance, nothing beats the rush of making a connection in person. As someone who gets paid to talk to strangers, I can attest that it’s a privilege to facilitate these connections every day.