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Navigating the High Cost of Post-Grad Life: Lessons Learned

After graduating, I gave myself a seven-month buffer to figure out my next move. This brought me to January 2014, when I faced a dilemma: sign a new lease in a town with limited opportunities or take a leap of faith and move to a new city without a job. I opted for a compromise, moving into a four-month sublet to extend my buffer period. Little did I know, this decision would set off a chain reaction of four moves in less than two years.

The Reality of Moving Costs

My first move to LA was a whirlwind experience. I had five days to find a subletter, pack up my belongings, and relocate across the country. Fortunately, I had saved up for this moment, but I soon realized that I wasn’t prepared for the unexpected costs that came with moving. I learned the hard way that budgeting for transportation, finding a reliable sublet, and researching locations thoroughly are crucial to avoiding financial stress.

Lessons from My Moves

1. Expect the Unexpected: Budget for surprise moving costs, like transportation fees or last-minute rental car expenses. These can quickly add up and blow your budget.
2. Take Charge of Your Sublet: Don’t rely on your landlord or others to find a subletter. Take responsibility for finding a reliable replacement to avoid getting stuck with unwanted expenses.
3. Location, Location, Location: Research, research, research! Don’t rush into a new place without considering the neighborhood, commute, and overall quality of life.
4. Ask the Right Questions: When apartment hunting, don’t be afraid to ask about potential loopholes or issues with the property. This can save you from unexpected headaches down the line.
5. Know Your Budget Limits: Be realistic about what you can afford. Paying a third of your gross income in rent may be unsustainable, especially if you’re freelancing or have variable income.

A New Chapter

After four moves in less than two years, I’ve finally found an apartment that fits my budget and lifestyle. While it’s been a wild ride, I’ve learned valuable lessons about the importance of planning, budgeting, and prioritizing my financial well-being. As I settle into my new home, I’m grateful for the experience and ready to take on the next chapter of my post-grad life.