She Strengthens

Breaking Free from Impulse Spending

Growing up, I never had a savings account to call my own. My parents did set aside a portion of my summer job earnings before I turned 18, but that was short-lived. After a mishap with my dad’s car, I had to drain my savings to cover the repair costs. From then on, I never really understood the concept of saving money.

A Shift in Perspective

However, since starting my blog, I’ve made a conscious effort to save money. It’s not a drastic change, but I’ve managed to set aside enough to cover a few months of living expenses if I were to stop earning income tomorrow. This newfound sense of financial security is transformative.

The Immature View of Money

For a long time, I had an immature approach to money. I believed that money was meant to be spent, not saved. I’d splurge on expensive clothes and dining out with friends, despite having a full fridge at home. The idea of saving money or investing in something intangible felt unfulfilling. I craved instant gratification, and that often led to reckless spending.

The Joy of Saving

But as I’ve started to prioritize saving, I’ve discovered a new kind of joy. It’s not about depriving myself of things I want, but about finding satisfaction in watching my savings grow. Recently, I’ve been resisting the urge to splurge while exploring Parisian shops. Not buying has become more satisfying than buying, and it’s allowed me to appreciate what I already have.

Making Savings an Addiction

Saving money requires discipline and a mindset shift. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it. When saving becomes an addiction, it can provide a sustainable and healthy kind of joy. It’s a feeling that’s hard to describe, but it’s one of confidence and security.

A Newfound Confidence

I was worried that my recent vacation would be a test of my willpower, but instead, I found myself thinking about my savings account and the future it represents. I’ve come to realize that saving money isn’t about depriving myself of pleasure, but about making intentional choices that align with my values.