A Call to Action for Men This Holiday Season
As the festive period approaches, it’s time to address a pressing issue that affects many relationships. While men often get to sit back and enjoy the holidays, women typically bear the brunt of the organizational workload.
The Unfair Burden of Holiday Planning
In most heteronormative relationships, women take on around 95% of the tasks related to holiday planning. From creating gift lists to planning travel itineraries, they’re the ones who ensure everything runs smoothly. Meanwhile, men often contribute only sporadically, usually after repeated reminders.
The Joy of Nagging?
While men may enjoy the holiday season, they often don’t realize the emotional labor that goes into making it happen. Women, on the other hand, are exhausted from managing the intricate details, all while balancing their own demanding jobs.
A Culture of Entitlement
Men are often taught that women enjoy taking care of everything, even when they have their own priorities to attend to. This mindset perpetuates the idea that emotional labor is a woman’s responsibility, especially when it comes to “non-essentials” like holiday planning.
It’s Time for Change
Men, it’s time to step up and take ownership of your role in the holiday season. Ask yourself: what can I do to help my partner, sister, or mother? Don’t wait for them to ask you repeatedly; take the initiative to lighten their load.
The Gift of Relaxation
By sharing the burden of holiday planning, you can give the women in your life the greatest gift of all: a relaxing and enjoyable holiday season. Remember, it’s not just about showing appreciation with praise and gifts; it’s about actively contributing to the process.
Be the Change You Want to See
So, men, let’s make a conscious effort to change our behavior this holiday season. Let’s recognize the value of emotional labor and take an active role in making the holidays a joyful experience for everyone involved.
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